<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928</id><updated>2011-07-07T23:55:53.434-04:00</updated><category term='George Box'/><category term='brief thoughts'/><category term='possibly current events'/><category term='allegory'/><category term='Tar Heel Tavern'/><category term='Key pieces'/><category term='solving problems'/><category term='math as metaphor'/><category term='Books'/><title type='text'>Another blue puzzle piece</title><subtitle type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Creating a sustainable human culture, a rough draft premix&lt;br /&gt;
  and a companion to the site, 
 &lt;a href="http://BluePuzzle.org/" &gt;My blue puzzle piece, here&lt;/a&gt;
  &lt;/p&gt;</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>83</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-6293660785679380833</id><published>2010-06-18T17:48:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2010-06-18T17:59:18.180-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Books'/><title type='text'>Jose Saramago sees no more</title><content type='html'>Jose Saramago, whose books, &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/books#two-worth-reading"&gt;The Cave&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/see"&gt;Blindness&lt;/a&gt;, I found remarkable and worth reading, has passed away.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This observation,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;Fighting has always been, more or less, a form of blindness&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;struck me as an important insight, and it has prefaced one of my web essays since I first read it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Though sad, perhaps this news will inspire new readers to look up his work.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-6293660785679380833?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/6293660785679380833/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=6293660785679380833' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/6293660785679380833'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/6293660785679380833'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2010/06/jose-saramago-sees-no-more.html' title='Jose Saramago sees no more'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-3176714722949965535</id><published>2009-08-20T17:54:00.008-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-20T18:08:19.468-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='brief thoughts'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='possibly current events'/><title type='text'>Don't take this personally</title><content type='html'>Really? How?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Life seems personal to me. We experience life &lt;em&gt;personally&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How could we avoid taking most things personally? Seems kind of difficult to find any other way to take things.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/All-Politics-Local-Other-Rules/dp/1558504702" target="_blank"&gt;All politics is local&lt;/a&gt;. Indeed, I suspect most people take politics &lt;em&gt;personally&lt;/em&gt;. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most people take their lives personally.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dontcha think?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-3176714722949965535?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/3176714722949965535/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=3176714722949965535' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3176714722949965535'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3176714722949965535'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2009/08/dont-take-this-personally.html' title='Don&apos;t take this personally'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-2549077577819151049</id><published>2009-01-20T12:30:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-01-22T00:16:24.763-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='brief thoughts'/><title type='text'>An observation of January 20th, 2009</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.whitehouse.gov/blog/inaugural-address/" style="text-decoration: none;"&gt;Healthy &lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.whitehouse.gov/blog/inaugural-address/" style="text-decoration: none;"&gt;mature &lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.whitehouse.gov/blog/inaugural-address/" style="text-decoration: none;"&gt;engagement &lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.whitehouse.gov/blog/inaugural-address/" &gt;with reality&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-2549077577819151049?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/2549077577819151049/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=2549077577819151049' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/2549077577819151049'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/2549077577819151049'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2009/01/observation-of-january-20th-2009.html' title='An observation of January 20th, 2009'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-3449271868360948641</id><published>2009-01-08T18:15:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-01-08T19:18:53.122-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Our moral solar system</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;Today I spent some time digging into social psychologist Jon Haidt's work on &lt;a href="http://faculty.virginia.edu/haidtlab/mft/index.php?t=home" target="_blank" &gt;moral foundations&lt;/a&gt;.  It was time well spent.  I've been thinking a lot lately, not writing much, but thinking a lot about &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;harm&lt;/span&gt;.  I've been thinking about different forms of harm; I've been thinking about our ability to perceive those various forms of harm; and I've been thinking about how our inability to perceive harm leads to even more harmful consequences. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And I've been thinking about the paradoxical challenge of &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/11/six-sides-of-dice-and-mature-engagement.html"&gt;explaining&lt;/a&gt; that mechanism to people who, apparently, do not perceive harm.  I'm still working on that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Meanwhile, Jon Haidt and his colleagues at the University of Virginia have been examining the foundations of morality that our species has evolved, along with the interactions of our evolved foundation with our cultural programming.  Haidt's model, which I find useful, suggests five foundations of "intuitive ethics". &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The first of the five is "Harm".  That grabbed my attention.  As I thought about the other four items in Haidt's list, I found myself thinking repeatedly,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;"&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Isn't that also a form of harm?&lt;/span&gt;"&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I noticed, too, that Haidt and his associates acknowledge that their model may be wrong, even though they find it useful.  That grabbed my attention, too, &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://bluepuzzle.org/george-box"&gt;of course&lt;/a&gt;.  They've cheerfully offered a reward to folks who may suggest improvements.  In the &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://faculty.virginia.edu/haidtlab/mft/index.php?t=challenges"&gt;fine print&lt;/a&gt; of their challenge they compare the task to identifying planets in our solar system, and to the challenge of distinguishing planets from other large rocks, with a nod toward former planet, Pluto.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thinking about the solar system, about what constitutes a planet, and about what constitutes harm, led me to a modification of Haidt's description that works better for me.  I think of the concept of Harm as the crucial, unifying component of Haidt's model of moral foundations.  Harm, to me, represents the sun, the center of a moral solar system.  The other four planets, Fairness, Loyalty, Respect, and Sanctity revolve around it.  They all relate to Harm.  They involve harm, in differing ways.  Those other moral components are captured and orbit in the same system because Harm exerts far greater gravity upon them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One aspect of harm, and the perception of harm, that I've been thinking about involves &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;anticipation of future harm&lt;/span&gt;.  Beyond recognizing a clear and present immediate danger, our ability to predict harmful consequences — &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://bluepuzzle.org/finger-trap#warning"&gt;or not&lt;/a&gt; — seems to me one of our greatest challenges as a society. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That predictive anticipation is one way that those other four components relate to harm as a central, unifying framework.  Consider Fairness, for example. I hope it's obvious that it would be unfair to withhold food from me if I'm starving.  But what about something smaller? What about when someone cuts in front of me in line?  Or more often, while driving?  On those occasions the annoyance of being treated unfairly usually passes quickly.  The greater question for me, however, is to wonder what &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;other&lt;/span&gt; ways a socially unfair driver or line-jumper might behave in the future?  If I can't trust someone to make a wise, fair decision about a small action, how can I trust such a person to make a wise, fair decision about something bigger, something more threatening, something more harmful?  It's the warning alarm about &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;future harm&lt;/span&gt; that unfairness raises in my mind.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Haidt's group looks at loyalty in the context of groups.  I'm not very good at group loyalty for its own sake.  I'm a lousy sports fan.  As a teenager, I never felt the appeal of "school spirit".  Such arbitrary assignments of loyalty rarely include any sense of perceptible harm that inspires me.  The well-being of the community where I live, however, affects my own well-being.  My perception of current or future harm can, and does, inspire loyalty to my community.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Respect, for me, is another valuable predictor of future behavior.  There may be immediate psychological benefit, or harm, if someone does or does not respect me.  Like fairness, however, my greater concern is for the future.  People who respect me now seem more likely to ensure my well being in the future.  People who disrespect me now (by treating me unfairly?) seem more likely to cause me harm in the future.  Lack of respect is a warning alarm about the potential for future harm.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The last component, sanctity (paired with "purity" in Haidt's model) is "shaped by the psychology of disgust and contamination."  Physical contamination, such as polluted air, polluted water, or spoiled food, clearly relates to potential physical harm.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So when I think about Haidt's model, I see the concept of harm as an underlying theme.  I see the concept of harm as a unifying framework.  In our moral solar system, I see our ability to perceive harm in all its forms as the sun whose gravity binds other moral components into a cohesive system. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Am I saying Haidt's model is wrong?  Not necessarily.  I find it more useful to think about harm as the key component because that suits the persuasive work that I do.  I encourage folks to see a bigger picture.  It's been my experience that finding one key item to focus upon can help other people see a bigger picture.  Placing the perception of harm at the center of our moral solar system works better for me, for what I want to do.  What Haidt's group wants to do is examine the interaction of our moral foundation with our culture and with our public policy decisions.  And they need to measure those interactions somehow.  For their purpose, collapsing the entire model to emphasize harm might make it more difficult for them to measure the interactions they seek to describe.  My model of our moral solar system may not work as well for them as it does for me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://bluepuzzle.org/george-box" target="_blank"&gt;Most models are wrong, but some are useful&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some models are wrong and useful in different ways, at different times, for different people, with different purposes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-3449271868360948641?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/3449271868360948641/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=3449271868360948641' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3449271868360948641'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3449271868360948641'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2009/01/our-moral-solar-system.html' title='Our moral solar system'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-2996735292483664084</id><published>2008-11-17T21:32:00.024-04:00</published><updated>2008-11-17T22:52:07.155-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Key pieces'/><title type='text'>Six sides of dice, and mature engagement with reality</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;img style="width: 100%;border:none" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_M9dYNftXsiI/SSIdZueMGRI/AAAAAAAAAB0/fl1dOl5CsRk/s320/dice-large.jpg" alt="dice" title="dice" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5269806841785489682" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dice are familiar objects, right?  Little cubes that fit in your hand, numbered one through six with decorative dots.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Think about one of them.  One die, strange as the singular name seems.  Which of its six sides is most important?  Which of the six numbers is most important?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well, it really depends on the game, right?  And without the context of some particular game, no side is more nor less important than the others.   All six sides are facets of the whole object.  Dice wouldn't be dice without all six sides.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;People sometimes ask me what I think is the most important aspect of sustainability.  What's the most important problem?  What's the most urgent?  What's the one thing that worries me most?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like identifying the most important side of a die, the answer varies.  My answers to such questions vary from day to day, from conversation to conversation, depending upon the context.  But there are some recurring themes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I try to explain the recurring themes I sometimes suggest a visual metaphor. So far, the best visual metaphor I've found comes from those six sides of dice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So here's a list of things I consider crucial to achieve a sustainable culture.  Like the sides of dice, these are all facets of a whole.  No one of them is necessarily more nor less important than the others.  They're all related.  I won't number them nor rank them. I just list them in some order that seems convenient and flows, like this...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;empathy&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;ability to perceive harm&lt;br /&gt;(even subtle harm)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;ability to anticipate consequences&lt;br /&gt;(outcomes both good and bad)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;maturity&lt;br /&gt;(regardless of birthdays)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;healthy engagement with the real universe around us&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;ability to learn&lt;br /&gt;(especially from mistakes and unexpected outcomes)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Conservation is important.  Recycling is important.  Economic justice is important.  Of course!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But all of those important things result from our human interactions: our human interactions with each other, and our human interactions with the real universe that surrounds us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sustainability is about &lt;a href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/02/sustainable-culture-begins-with-healthy.html"&gt;attitude&lt;/a&gt;.  Sustainability is about &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/culture" target="_blank"&gt;culture&lt;/a&gt;.  Sustainability is about empathy, and maturity, and the ability to perceive harm in all its forms. Sustainability is about anticipating consequences.  Sustainability is about anticipating harm. Sustainability is about learning from our mistakes.  Sustainability is about &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/see" target="_blank"&gt;seeing&lt;/a&gt; the real universe and engaging reality as healthy grown-ups.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sustainability is about all of those things, and a lot more.  But that seems a good start.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;---&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In his own way, Professor George Mobus addresses many of these sides of the dice at his blog, &lt;a href="http://questioneverything.typepad.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Question Everything&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Photo courtesy of &lt;a href="http://www.designsbydarren.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Designs by Darren&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-2996735292483664084?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/2996735292483664084/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=2996735292483664084' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/2996735292483664084'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/2996735292483664084'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/11/six-sides-of-dice-and-mature-engagement.html' title='Six sides of dice, and mature engagement with reality'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_M9dYNftXsiI/SSIdZueMGRI/AAAAAAAAAB0/fl1dOl5CsRk/s72-c/dice-large.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-6435158878277630842</id><published>2008-08-26T15:15:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-08-26T15:19:45.053-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Do you know why Indian rain dances always worked?</title><content type='html'>&lt;blockquote&gt;Because the Indians would keep dancing until it rained.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;that&lt;/span&gt; is why I like to read what &lt;a href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/08/book-meme.html"&gt;Sherman Alexie&lt;/a&gt; writes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-6435158878277630842?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/6435158878277630842/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=6435158878277630842' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/6435158878277630842'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/6435158878277630842'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/08/do-you-know-why-indian-rain-dances.html' title='Do you know why Indian rain dances always worked?'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-484435325595135437</id><published>2008-08-04T17:26:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-08-04T17:26:00.629-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='brief thoughts'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Books'/><title type='text'>Wisdom looks toward the future</title><content type='html'>&lt;blockquote&gt;These days people seek knowledge, not wisdom.&lt;br /&gt;Knowledge is of the past;&lt;br /&gt;wisdom is of the future.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; font-style: italic;"&gt;Vernon Cooper,&lt;br /&gt;Lumbee elder&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Perhaps this puzzle piece connects to another from two years ago: &lt;a title="join these pieces" href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/07/information-knowledge-wisdom.html"&gt;Information, Knowledge, Wisdom&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Wisdomkeepers-Meetings-Native-American-Spiritual/dp/158270158X/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1217884919&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank"&gt;Wisdomkeepers: Meetings with Native American Spiritual Elders&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-484435325595135437?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/484435325595135437/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=484435325595135437' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/484435325595135437'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/484435325595135437'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/08/wisdom-looks-toward-future.html' title='Wisdom looks toward the future'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-2188045807215964788</id><published>2008-04-14T17:28:00.007-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-14T17:49:50.792-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Troll Spectrum Behavior (version 1.0)</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;I talk about behavior quite often, here and elsewhere.  From elsewhere I want to pull in some comments about a form of dysfunctional behavior online, namely: &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Troll Spectrum Behavior&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, trolls and trolling have a long history on the net. (And in the context of accelerated "Internet time", that's saying something.)  Originally the terms "troll" and "trolling" described a kind of deliberate and conscious game.  More recently, however, a number of folks have noticed -- and by noticed, I mean, cursed about -- the appearance of people who behave like trolls but who seem to have no insight into their behavior.  It's that aspect of the current phenomenon that I think of as "Troll Spectrum Behavior". It seems there's a remarkable number of folks whose uninhibited online behavior is functionally indistinguishable from the old games of trolling for newbies and trolling for suckers.  Many of these folks seem to be flying on autopilot, operating "open loop", not learning and thus not communicating.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Since the Legos are already scattered all over the floor, I might as toss these pieces onto the pile.  These pieces are from comments at ScienceBlogs.com.  First a question posed by another participant:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;Here's a question -- is it real trolling if the person actually holds that attitude, or is it real trolling if the person doesn't hold that attitude in reality, but pretends to just in order to get people wound up? Or, are both of those "real trolling", just different flavors?&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My reply:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;I put "real trolling" in quotes to parallel your earlier use of quotes and to suggest a pun on the commenter's nickname.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But raising a question about the psychology of trolls does strike me as relevant to the original topic. As I recall from back in the days of Internet yore, early on the terms "troll" and "trolling" supposedly signified game-playing behavior, a kind of sport, or sometimes performance art. But it seems to me that was a flimsy cover story from the start. The behavior was unhealthy then and it still is now.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As you suggest, these days I don't really try to distinguish trolling as a supposed game from functionally equivalent harmful behaviors. When Troll Spectrum Behavior occurs, I do think it's important that someone demonstrate a healthier counterexample. Accidental quasi-trolls might learn if offered an opportunity, and some healthy social reinforcement helps to maintain a sense of community. Beyond that, of course, no feeding. :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It seems to me Troll Spectrum Behavior might be related to a problem that I see underlying the topic of Zuska's post, and that I see underlying a number of social problems: a widespread inability to perceive harm.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Filtering out perceptions of harm, injustice, exploitation, pain, and suffering; lacking empathy or actively suppressing empathy; ignoring the consequences of our behavior; these things seem like enablers in mechanisms that create further harm. I find that disturbing.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;About the same time, the topic came up at another blog within the ScienceBlogs umbrella. There I wrote:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;I find no value in trying to distinguish the varieties of Troll Spectrum Behavior (as mentioned recently at Zuska's blog). It doesn't matter to me whether attention-seeking and game-playing behaviors stem from conscious or un/subconscious motivation. The consequences are pretty much the same, so my (lack of) response is pretty much the same.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I do think it's important to demonstrate mature interactions instead. That fosters situations in which social learning can occur. But that doesn't require feeding attention appetites.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(This is a rough draft. Proper links forthcoming...)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-2188045807215964788?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/2188045807215964788/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=2188045807215964788' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/2188045807215964788'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/2188045807215964788'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/04/troll-spectrum-behavior-version-10.html' title='Troll Spectrum Behavior (version 1.0)'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-6198957456770441386</id><published>2008-04-04T10:22:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-04T10:41:34.131-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Communication involves learning</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;Pretty much every attempt at communicating also involves learning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The knowledge to be gained might be just a tiny tidbit, as little as, "What's at the end of this very sentence?"  As trivial as that may seem, if we read, or listen, wait patiently for the end of that sentence to arrive, and attempt to comprehend it, we discover new information there.  If we accept the existence of that new information, we can learn.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We don't even have to agree about the meaning of that new information.  If we merely accept the &lt;em&gt;existence&lt;/em&gt; of new information, we might learn.  We might communicate.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If we are not open to the experience of learning, if we are averse to new information, how can we expect to communicate?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Communicating involves learning. It seems to me our ability to communicate is closely related to our willingness to learn.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-6198957456770441386?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/6198957456770441386/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=6198957456770441386' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/6198957456770441386'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/6198957456770441386'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/04/communication-involves-learning.html' title='Communication involves learning'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-3880382466751379206</id><published>2008-04-01T10:29:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-01T10:43:04.457-04:00</updated><title type='text'>This is not a new post</title><content type='html'>Looking at the calendar today, and looking at some of my usual daily web site reading, I am reminded that today is not a good day to try to be serious.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Since I try to emphasize &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/03/scattering-many-pieces-dumping-my.html"&gt;serious&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/iceberg" target="_blank" &gt;weighty&lt;/a&gt; matters here, I definitely will not post anything new today.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Definitely. &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/not" target="_blank" &gt;Not&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Um, er, what?  Oh, I &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/see"  target="_blank" &gt;see&lt;/a&gt;.  Doh!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-3880382466751379206?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/3880382466751379206/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=3880382466751379206' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3880382466751379206'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3880382466751379206'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/04/this-is-not-new-post.html' title='This is not a new post'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-5815191071055802049</id><published>2008-03-26T21:56:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-03-27T10:58:10.369-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='brief thoughts'/><title type='text'>Words to think by</title><content type='html'>&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Understanding is a kind of ecstasy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; font-style: italic;"&gt;(Carl Sagan)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-5815191071055802049?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/5815191071055802049/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=5815191071055802049' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/5815191071055802049'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/5815191071055802049'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/03/words-to-think-by.html' title='Words to think by'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-5649203067537805086</id><published>2008-03-26T16:25:00.010-04:00</published><updated>2008-03-30T14:51:47.304-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Removing barriers to understanding</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;How do we become motivated to understand?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How do we become interested in understanding ... oh, I dunno, any idea, something, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;anything&lt;/span&gt;?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How do we become interested in learning?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;Is that several questions?  Perhaps.  I think of them as variations on one theme.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The words "persuade" and "influence" are in that &lt;a title="scroll down" href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/#3987827117083754858"&gt;pile of Legos&lt;/a&gt; I dumped on the floor recently.  The question, "How does persuasion &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;work&lt;/span&gt;?" is one of the underlying themes of my writing here.    It seems to me we often think about persuasion as an additive process.  We provide facts, figures, and information.  We build a case.   Sometimes we try to make the process &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;overwhelmingly&lt;/span&gt; additive.  We blast information from a fire hose.  We try to bury each other under piles of words.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This just occurred to me now, while writing this post:  Sometimes persuasion seems more like a process of elimination, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;a process of removing barriers&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sometimes (perhaps often?)  &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;persuasion occurs when we remove barriers to understanding&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So maybe we should ask ourselves the question this way:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;How do we remove barriers to understanding?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-5649203067537805086?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/5649203067537805086/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=5649203067537805086' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/5649203067537805086'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/5649203067537805086'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/03/removing-barriers-to-understanding.html' title='Removing barriers to understanding'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-3987827117083754858</id><published>2008-03-21T13:15:00.013-04:00</published><updated>2008-03-22T08:40:55.091-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Scattering many pieces, dumping my bucket of Legos</title><content type='html'>When I was a kid I often built things from Lego blocks.  I kept my unassembled Legos in a gallon-sized plastic bucket.  Whenever I began a new Lego building project, I would sit down and dump the entire bucket of blocks all over the floor in front of me.  Scattering a gallon of Legos takes up considerable floor space, but it seemed the easiest way to find the pieces I wanted to assemble.  That, and they made a satisfying whoosh, roar, and clatter as they tumbled out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I knew folks who took a similar approach to assembling large &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://bluepuzzle.org/intro"&gt;picture puzzles&lt;/a&gt;.  I have several essay projects that I intend to construct here eventually.  Since I consider this blog as a staging area for &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/" target="_blank"&gt;my other web site&lt;/a&gt;, I thought it might be helpful to dump my bucket of Legos here so that we can easily find the building blocks for future essays.  So, here we go: (Whoosh! Roar ... &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;clatter&lt;/span&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Vision&lt;br /&gt;Strategy&lt;br /&gt;Tactics&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;Perception is reality?&lt;br /&gt;Probably not.&lt;br /&gt;But it can be difficult to perceive the difference.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;cognitive dissonance&lt;br /&gt;projection&lt;br /&gt;locus of control&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;social psychology&lt;br /&gt;in-group / out-group&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Lord of the Flies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;Maslow's hierarchy of needs&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;self-image&lt;br /&gt;self-esteem&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;a need to feel competent&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;No one wakes up in the morning with a plan to be stupid.&lt;br /&gt;We all believe we're doing the right thing at the time we do it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;retroactive justification&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Ego&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;I am right / you are wrong&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;People who say they are "open-minded" usually are not.&lt;br /&gt;People who say, "My door is always open", often say they are also open-minded.&lt;br /&gt;People who say, "You don't have to like me, you just have to respect me" don't really know how liking or respect actually work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Dialog&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;non-violent communication&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;E-prime&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;frames&lt;br /&gt;memes&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;Tipping Point&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the Internet, nobody knows you're a dog.&lt;br /&gt;On the Internet, nobody knows if you're a 14 year old boy.&lt;br /&gt;Or a 40 year old man.&lt;br /&gt;Or 40 going on 14.&lt;br /&gt;Nobody knows -- but one often suspects.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;authentic&lt;br /&gt;mature&lt;br /&gt;becoming aware&lt;br /&gt;conscious participation&lt;br /&gt;Trying not to participate is a form of participation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The most basic task of every human is to be human.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;How hard can that be?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;Paolo Lugari once asked,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;"Why do you people make everything so difficult?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;If you make people think they're thinking, they'll love you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;If you really make them think, they'll hate you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Everybody&lt;/span&gt; thinks those two statements make them look good.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;open-minded&lt;br /&gt;open door&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Defending a castle of belief&lt;br /&gt;Swimming in a lake of information&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Learn&lt;br /&gt;Understand&lt;br /&gt;Profess&lt;br /&gt;Persuade&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;(No, I wasn't impressed by &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Freakonomics&lt;/span&gt;.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;economic theory&lt;br /&gt;economic reality&lt;br /&gt;Kurt Vonnegut's &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Galapagos&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Belief&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;high-maintenance beliefs&lt;br /&gt;low-maintenance beliefs&lt;br /&gt;habits&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;values&lt;br /&gt;attitudes&lt;br /&gt;habits&lt;br /&gt;decisions&lt;br /&gt;behaviors&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;coasting on auto-pilot&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;Mother Culture&lt;br /&gt;Strict Father&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;exploitation&lt;br /&gt;abusive relationships&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;disparity by design&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;egalitarian&lt;br /&gt;altruism&lt;br /&gt;prosocial behavior&lt;br /&gt;evolutionarily stable strategy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ants know how to live like ants.&lt;br /&gt;Bees know how to live like bees.&lt;br /&gt;Some fish swim in schools, but they don't attend school to learn how.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Humans evolved as a social species.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;Strategic ignorance&lt;br /&gt;Look for a bigger picture.&lt;br /&gt;There's usually a bigger picture.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;community&lt;br /&gt;connection&lt;br /&gt;Gaviotas&lt;br /&gt;tribe&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;Urban Tribes&lt;br /&gt;Ethan Watters&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;Robin Dunbar&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What do the Amish understand that the rest of us do not?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;conspicuous reduction&lt;br /&gt;voluntary simplicity&lt;br /&gt;preventing &lt;em&gt;involuntary&lt;/em&gt; simplicity&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Fifth Discipline&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;lessons from the beer game&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;control&lt;br /&gt;power&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;influence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;steering a sled&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;rolling snowball&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;feedback loops&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;anthropology&lt;br /&gt;psychology&lt;br /&gt;climatology&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;riverboat gamblers&lt;br /&gt;learn the rules of the game&lt;br /&gt;see the mechanism&lt;br /&gt;then turn the system inside-out&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;possibility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;confidence&lt;br /&gt;imagination&lt;br /&gt;probability&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;side effects&lt;br /&gt;unintended consequences&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;There are always consequences.&lt;br /&gt;Be careful what you wish for.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;middle climber syndrome&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Policy makes a poor substitute for sound judgment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We probably look pretty silly from the &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://bluepuzzle.org/see#perspective"&gt;point of view&lt;/a&gt; of an &lt;a  target="_blank" href="http://www.chrishardie.com/weblog/archives/2008/03/daniel-quinns-write-sideways.html"&gt;anthropologist from Mars&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-3987827117083754858?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/3987827117083754858/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=3987827117083754858' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3987827117083754858'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3987827117083754858'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/03/scattering-many-pieces-dumping-my.html' title='Scattering many pieces, dumping my bucket of Legos'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-3065365208806156933</id><published>2008-02-28T19:15:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2008-02-28T19:40:08.543-04:00</updated><title type='text'>A sustainable culture begins with a healthy, sustainable attitude</title><content type='html'>&lt;blockquote&gt;What I fear is that some writers are trying to inspire a movement to actively cause a hard collapse&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;That's the beginning of one of the observations that grabbed my attention in Ran Prieur's recent essay, Beyond Civilized and Primitive.  I think he sees something important, something hidden below the tip of an iceberg. Prieur goes on to explore one consequence of actively seeking a hard collapse. He writes about coercion as a strategic mistake, which indirectly suggests one answer to a question I posed a while back:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;How would we live if &lt;a title="beginnings justify means" target="supplemental" href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/07/and-we-all-begin-happily-ever-after.html"&gt;beginnings&lt;/a&gt; justify means?&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;Over the years I've encountered a number of people who tell me (over and over!) that they're working for the greater good, but their &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;consistently demonstrated behaviors&lt;/span&gt; look a lot like something else.  Their behaviors look like they're trying, first and foremost, to fulfill their own personal wants and needs.  A need for attention.  A need for approval.  A need for affirmation.  A need to be "right".  A need to have a crowd of followers who provide attention, approval, affirmation, and an award for absolute, universal Truth.  (You know, with a capital T. The &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Truth&lt;/span&gt;.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thing is, for all the talk about big ideas and grand plans, what I notice, what a lot of folks notice, what we respond to, is consistently demonstrated behavior.  Show me, don't tell me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I look around and find healthy, mature people who interact in healthy, stable social groups, I don't see a lot of attention-seeking behaviors.  I don't see guys jockeying for position in the pack.  I don't see competition to be declared smartest.  Nor loudest.  No one-upping.  No tantrums.  Nor do I see people who try to drag everyone around them into a black pit of despair. When I see healthy, mature people interact with each other in healthy, stable social groups, I see people who seem to share and appreciate a sense of community.  I see people who become energized by mutually supportive, win/win, interactions.  &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I see people who can see beyond themselves.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Of course, some big ideas and grand plans do overlap with attitudes and values that result in real, beneficial pro-social behavior.  I'm happy to support those ideas and those plans.  I strive to credit folks for imagination and innovation.  But I refuse to endorse egotistic behaviors that cause harm to others.  I refuse to endorse obnoxious behavior even if it's affiliated with someone's good idea.  I refuse, because authentic, sincere prosocial behaviors actually create a healthy society.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a target="supplemental" title="Let's be the change we seek." href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/02/show-me-dont-tell-me.html"&gt;Show me&lt;/a&gt;, don't tell me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;——&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some additional pieces that may fit:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://ranprieur.com/essays/beyondciv.html" target="supplemental" title="ran prieur, beyond civilized and primitive"&gt;Beyond Civilized and Primitive&lt;/a&gt;, Ran Prieur&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/01/ideas-wrapped-in-behaviors.html" title="a brief, early draft of this piece" target="supplemental"&gt;Ideas, wrapped in behaviors&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/circle" title="to be wise is to turn around" target="supplemental"&gt;Circle of observers&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/two-questions" title="2 questions, 3 comments" target="supplemental"&gt;Two questions&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a target="supplemental" href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/06/being-good-person-despite-bad-outcomes.html" title="an approach to becoming comfortable with ourselves"&gt;Being a good person despite bad outcomes&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/iceberg" title="and what lies beneath" target="supplemental"&gt;Tip of the iceberg&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/see" title="see bluepuzzle.org" target="supplemental"&gt;To be wise is to see&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/12/arithmetic-allegory-31413.html" title="a trivial example" target="supplemental"&gt;Arithmetic allegory #4&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:80%;" &gt;(links open in a new window or tab)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Some readers may recognize elements of Maslow's "hierarchy of needs" throughout this essay.  I'm borrowing rather casually, and I haven't found an online resource that concisely associates Maslow's ideas about individual needs to prosocial behavior.  Perhaps you can suggest something?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-3065365208806156933?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/3065365208806156933/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=3065365208806156933' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3065365208806156933'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3065365208806156933'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/02/sustainable-culture-begins-with-healthy.html' title='A sustainable culture begins with a healthy, sustainable attitude'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-4869568387920302301</id><published>2008-02-28T14:00:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2008-02-28T14:09:26.569-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='brief thoughts'/><title type='text'>Misery creates company</title><content type='html'>&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Misery loves company.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Often, misery needs company.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Too often, misery &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;creates&lt;/span&gt; company.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And that's a problem, don't you think?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-4869568387920302301?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/4869568387920302301/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=4869568387920302301' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/4869568387920302301'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/4869568387920302301'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/02/misery-creates-company.html' title='Misery creates company'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-2287440003536377345</id><published>2008-02-27T13:56:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-02-27T14:01:18.396-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='brief thoughts'/><title type='text'>Show me, don't tell me</title><content type='html'>Some people like to stand on soapboxes and shout loudly at me.  They like to proclaim that they have my best interests at heart.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Personally, I prefer &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;consistently repeated behaviors&lt;/span&gt; by people who &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;demonstrate&lt;/span&gt; that they have my best interests at heart.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just sayin'&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-2287440003536377345?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/2287440003536377345/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=2287440003536377345' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/2287440003536377345'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/2287440003536377345'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/02/show-me-dont-tell-me.html' title='Show me, don&apos;t tell me'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-7647440997481199888</id><published>2008-02-26T19:20:00.014-04:00</published><updated>2008-02-28T15:30:22.036-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Good writing, assembling important pieces, elsewhere</title><content type='html'>&lt;blockquote&gt;He was constantly reminded of how startlingly  different a place the world was when viewed from a point only three feet  to the left.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;(Douglas Adams)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most models are wrong, but some are &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;useful&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;(&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://bluepuzzle.org/george-box" target="_blank"&gt;George Box&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;, paraphrased)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;Ran Prieur seems like someone who views the world from at least three feet to the left of mainstream American culture.  Recently he wrote an essay that assembles many of the same pieces I've been (slowly!) fitting together here:  &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://ranprieur.com/essays/beyondciv.html"&gt;Beyond Civilized and Primitive&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I found Prieur's essay intriguing and well worth reading. Overall his assembled puzzle seems to look similar to mine (although he does include a few pieces that aren't part of my outlook). Most importantly to me, Prieur's essay synthesizes an attitude about our future that I consider beneficial.  (Some models are useful!)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've also recently encountered the online publication of &lt;a target="_blank" title="Greater Good magazine online" href="http://greatergood.berkeley.edu/greatergood/index.html"&gt;Greater Good&lt;/a&gt;, a project of the &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://greatergood.berkeley.edu/sci-about_landing.html"&gt;Greater Good Science Center&lt;/a&gt; at UC Berkeley.  The latest issue explores the psychology of power and influence in several insightful articles.  One of them, in particular, provides some further background to Prieur's essay: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://greatergood.berkeley.edu/greatergood/current_issue/Boehm.html"&gt;Political Primates&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There's some good writing, and good reading, out there.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Enjoy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-7647440997481199888?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/7647440997481199888/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=7647440997481199888' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/7647440997481199888'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/7647440997481199888'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/02/good-writing-assembling-important.html' title='Good writing, assembling important pieces, elsewhere'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-7433906004111302385</id><published>2008-02-01T21:21:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-02-02T11:44:30.916-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Idealism. Labelism.  Bagism.</title><content type='html'>If it ends with -&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;ism&lt;/span&gt; it seems likely to become a problem, for someone, someday.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's been my observation and experience.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ideologies.  Labels. Imaginary boundaries. Is. Is not! An &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/intro" target="_blank" title="Illusion of communication; illusion of information."&gt;illusion of information&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We bundle up some things we &lt;span style="text-decoration:line-through;"&gt;know&lt;/span&gt; believe, slap a label on the bundle, and talk as if everything worth saying can be delivered in a bag with a label.  &lt;span style="text-decoration:line-through;"&gt;Eventually&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="text-decoration:line-through;"&gt;Later&lt;/span&gt; Soon we begin to talk as if only the label matters, as if everything we need to know can be conveyed merely by the label.  Sometimes we seem to forget what we put in the bag, we're so busy announcing its label.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I thought about calling that phenomenon &amp;ldquo;bagism&amp;rdquo;, but &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bagism" target="_blank" title="a brief history of bagism"&gt;someone else got there first&lt;/a&gt;.  Same with labelism.  Even ismism.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Good grief, what's left?  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well, how about breaking that habit?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-7433906004111302385?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/7433906004111302385/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=7433906004111302385' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/7433906004111302385'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/7433906004111302385'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/02/idealism-labelism-bagism.html' title='Idealism. Labelism.  Bagism.'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-5053789368768849446</id><published>2008-01-23T14:15:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-03-07T14:25:32.478-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Ideas, wrapped in behaviors</title><content type='html'>(&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Some thoughts under development ...&lt;/span&gt; )&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ideas, when they form and float through our minds, are just ideas.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Expressing ideas, the &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;act&lt;/span&gt; of communicating, is &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;behavior&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We like to believe that our writing, our speaking, our conversations, we like to believe we deal only with ideas.  But to me that seems incomplete. It seems to me we often &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;react&lt;/span&gt; to the &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;behaviors&lt;/span&gt; that we perceive as much or even more than the ideas wrapped in those behaviors.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://framegame.org" target="_blank" title="FrameGame.org, a blog"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Words matter&lt;/a&gt;.  Words matter because words create consequences.  Communicating with words is a &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;behavior&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/comments/two-questions/" target="_blank"&gt;behaviors create consequences&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;See also: &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/02/show-me-dont-tell-me.html"&gt;Show me, don't tell me&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/02/sustainable-culture-begins-with-healthy.html"&gt;A sustainable culture begins with a healthy, sustainable attitude&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-5053789368768849446?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/5053789368768849446/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=5053789368768849446' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/5053789368768849446'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/5053789368768849446'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/01/ideas-wrapped-in-behaviors.html' title='Ideas, wrapped in behaviors'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-1898543617693417522</id><published>2008-01-19T17:21:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-01-19T17:40:56.605-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Books'/><title type='text'>Amusing Ourselves to Death</title><content type='html'>I've mentioned this book several times recently in comments elsewhere.  It occurred to me that I should mention it at my own web site, too:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/2-9780143036531-1" title="book description at Powells" target="_blank"&gt;Amusing Ourselves to Death: Public Discourse in the Age of Show Business&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;by Neil Postman&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If TV news and talk radio leave you feeling something &lt;a target="_blank" title="five day vase forecast" href="http://bluepuzzle.org/see"&gt;other than well-informed&lt;/a&gt;, Postman's little book might explain why.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-1898543617693417522?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/1898543617693417522/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=1898543617693417522' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/1898543617693417522'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/1898543617693417522'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/01/amusing-ourselves-to-death.html' title='Amusing Ourselves to Death'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-8414341641815259767</id><published>2008-01-10T10:10:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-12-11T01:17:27.092-04:00</updated><title type='text'>web log, with explosions and funny hats</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;Occasionally I'm reminded that the concept, "blog", came from "web log", a log of interesting web sites.  Pointing out other people's worthy efforts can be one way to support them.  Here are two worthy efforts that I support by pointing and clicking:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://trinifar.wordpress.com/" title="Trinifar's blog" target="_blank"&gt;Trinifar&lt;/a&gt; writes clear and concise, yet detailed, essays about sustainability concepts.  Trinifar's writing path takes up where mine leaves off.  The essay title, “&lt;a target="_blank" title="Trinifar: learning to think about the future" href="http://trinifar.wordpress.com/2007/12/21/learning-to-think-about-the-future/"&gt;Learning to think about the future&lt;/a&gt;”, would have made a good subtitle for my site.  (Darn, too late, I guess.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Learning to think about the future” would also be a good subtitle for this &lt;a title="learning to think about the future, a video version" target="_blank" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mF_anaVcCXg"&gt;video&lt;/a&gt; about climate change.  The science teacher who began this YouTube effort a few months ago has refined his message.  He sets an excellent example of clear and careful thinking about a challenging topic.  He delivers an urgent and serious message, punctuated with explosions and funny hats.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a title="how to think about the future, a video version" target="_blank" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mF_anaVcCXg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: auto; display: block;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_M9dYNftXsiI/R4Yn2GM5CaI/AAAAAAAAAAo/15VYKYcNc0o/s320/st-crop-2.jpg" alt="science teacher explains global warming while wearing a funny hat" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5153850633903212962" /&gt;&lt;p style="text-align: center; font-size: 65%;"&gt;(click to open this video in a new window or tab)&lt;br /&gt;&amp;ldquo;While we debate ...&lt;br /&gt;we're running the experiment ...&lt;br /&gt;and &lt;em&gt;we're in the test tube&lt;/em&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;As far as thinking about future posts at this blog, here are a couple of topics that have rattled around inside my head recently:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  soap and water;  and&lt;br /&gt;  What does it mean to “just” get along?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-8414341641815259767?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/8414341641815259767/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=8414341641815259767' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/8414341641815259767'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/8414341641815259767'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2008/01/web-log-with-explosions-and-funny-hats.html' title='web log, with explosions and funny hats'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_M9dYNftXsiI/R4Yn2GM5CaI/AAAAAAAAAAo/15VYKYcNc0o/s72-c/st-crop-2.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-2054855313222626223</id><published>2007-10-28T23:07:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-10-28T23:27:59.464-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Circle of observers (rough draft)</title><content type='html'>Picture a group of people, a dozen or more, standing in a circle, looking outward.  They stand shoulder to shoulder, backs to the center, facing away from each other.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many of them have telescopes, some have binoculars.  They all have clipboards and notebooks and lots of pens and pencils in the pockets of their white coats.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They look outward at the universe and declare proudly, "From here we can see &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;everything&lt;/span&gt;!"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To the folks outside the circle, however, that comment seems kind of odd.  From outside the circle it's easy to see something that's hidden from the proud observers.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From outside the circle, &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;we can see inside the circle&lt;/span&gt;.  We can observe the observers.  We can see their blind spot.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To be wise is to see ... more.  To be wise is to see ... that something is missing. To be wise is to see ... that &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/iceberg"&gt;there's probably more&lt;/a&gt; to &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/see"&gt;see&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Within the circle of observers, to be wise is to &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;turn around&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-2054855313222626223?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/2054855313222626223/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=2054855313222626223' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/2054855313222626223'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/2054855313222626223'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/10/circle-of-observers-rough-draft.html' title='Circle of observers (rough draft)'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-3255301009982962925</id><published>2007-10-25T08:59:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-10-25T09:22:39.512-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Are we ready yet?</title><content type='html'>Some things only become visible when we become ready to see them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" title="opens in a new window or tab" href="http://bluepuzzle.org/see"&gt;To be wise is to see&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Water. Weather. War. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Why?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What are we ready to see?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Is that an &lt;a  href="http://bluepuzzle.org/iceberg"&gt;iceberg&lt;/a&gt; ahead?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-3255301009982962925?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/3255301009982962925/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=3255301009982962925' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3255301009982962925'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3255301009982962925'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/10/are-we-ready-yet.html' title='Are we ready yet?'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-3756805008367618835</id><published>2007-09-06T15:49:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-12-11T01:17:27.334-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='solving problems'/><title type='text'>What's the worst that could happen? (a video)</title><content type='html'>Here's an example of someone who uses &lt;a title="previous post: How do you put out a fire?" href="#3838363506211689534"&gt;water&lt;/a&gt; to put out a fire:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zORv8wwiadQ" title="What's the worst that could happen? A short video about making wise decisions" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img style="margin:auto" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_M9dYNftXsiI/RuBaNZ1DCeI/AAAAAAAAAAg/4F1FaHSDCEw/s320/teaching-decision.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5107181163756325346" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;(video will &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zORv8wwiadQ" title="a short video about making wise decisions, at YouTube" target="_blank"&gt;open&lt;/a&gt; in a new window or tab)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is an excellent illustration of a way to make a wise, &lt;a target="_blank" title="What do you do when you see a warning sign?" href="http://bluepuzzle.org/finger-trap#warning"&gt;prudent decision&lt;/a&gt; when the stakes are high and the consequences are severe.   &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-3756805008367618835?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/3756805008367618835/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=3756805008367618835' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3756805008367618835'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3756805008367618835'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/09/whats-worst-that-could-happen-video.html' title='What&apos;s the worst that could happen? (a video)'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_M9dYNftXsiI/RuBaNZ1DCeI/AAAAAAAAAAg/4F1FaHSDCEw/s72-c/teaching-decision.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-3838363506211689534</id><published>2007-09-01T10:31:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-02-27T14:08:25.856-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='brief thoughts'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='solving problems'/><title type='text'>How do you put out a fire?</title><content type='html'>I've noticed some people like to advocate "fighting fire with fire".  Their contribution to conversation is to declare, with absolute confidence,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;Ya gotta fight fire with fire!&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thing is, most firefighters I know use &lt;strong&gt;water&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-3838363506211689534?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/3838363506211689534/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=3838363506211689534' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3838363506211689534'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3838363506211689534'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/09/how-do-you-put-out-fire.html' title='How do you put out a fire?'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-1119240127030536155</id><published>2007-08-28T17:40:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-02-27T14:10:28.680-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Two questions</title><content type='html'>Lately I've been watching multiple debates, arguments, shouting matches, and &lt;a title="tip of the iceberg, and below" target="_blank" href="http://bluepuzzle.org/iceberg"&gt;iceberg-tip snowball fights &lt;/a&gt; as they sprawl across various blogs.  The topics that triggered these noisy brawls vary somewhat, but the pattern of escalation of all the conflicts looks the same to me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Although it shouldn't surprise me anymore, I confess I still find it remarkable how much effort some people can expend in trying to justify rude and counterproductive behaviors.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've been trying to find a concise way to describe what I see below the surface of these icebergs.  Today it occurred to me that two simple questions could reveal a lot — if anyone cared to ask them:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt; &lt;strong&gt;What are the effects of my own behavior?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt; &lt;strong&gt;How should I behave if I care about the answer?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-1119240127030536155?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/1119240127030536155/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=1119240127030536155' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/1119240127030536155'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/1119240127030536155'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/08/two-questions.html' title='Two questions'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-4917408388470350824</id><published>2007-08-19T19:09:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-19T19:23:12.688-04:00</updated><title type='text'>The Rule of 150, minus three</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;About ten years ago I began working with a &lt;strike&gt;small&lt;/strike&gt; tiny Internet company.  Did you notice that I say "with" -- not "for"?  I was an employee, not a temp, not a consultant, but we were a small group and we worked &lt;em&gt;with&lt;/em&gt; each other.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I began I was the eighth person in the group.  They began as five, tightly knit as the saying goes, working closely with each other to manage and sell bandwidth on a small fiber optic network.  Changes in the telecommunication industry and the emerging Internet phenomenon steered the little company toward a path of sudden growth.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At the beginning it was a perfect fit for me.  They were doing, or were about to do, exactly what I wanted for my career.  It was exciting.  It was perfect. It was &lt;em&gt;fun&lt;/em&gt;.  We didn't worry much about job titles or job descriptions or hierarchy. We did what needed to be done, and we had fun doing it.  One day I was chatting with one of our Vice President of Sales, and I told him:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;"Some days I feel like the janitor.  But some days I feel like a Vice President."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Me, too!"  he said.  "Me, too."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But the fun didn't last.   We bought into the idea that bigger is always better, so we tried to get bigger. We tried to get bigger even faster than everybody else was trying to get bigger. In just months I went from one of eight, sharing offices with real doors that we didn't need to be closed and sharing jazz CDs and janitorial outlooks with vice presidents, to one cubicle gopher among hundreds.  I had quickly become just another one of the seven hundred strangers scattered throughout three buildings, surrounded by acres of parking lots.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Late one afternoon I was chatting with a couple of close colleagues from "the good old days".  The three of us lamented that we didn't know anybody anymore.  Our little company had become BIG.  And bigger just didn't seem better, after all.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My friends left for the day, but I stayed and pulled out a company phone directory.  I began counting the names of the people I actually knew.  Not just names I vaguely recognized, but people I &lt;em&gt;knew&lt;/em&gt;.  There were a lot more unknown names than known ones.  I scanned quickly until I came to a name I knew, and then I found myself pausing to reminisce.  Eventually I came to the end of the list.  I remember the number clearly:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;147&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Out of almost 700 people working for the company (notice I say "for", not "with"), out of 700, I knew exactly 147.   I put away the phone list and went home.  By the next day I had forgotten this depressing counting exercise.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Things went downhill from there.  Three years later the rollercoaster was coasting to a bumpy stop.  Even though most of them were strangers, I felt bad for the hundreds of people whose jobs were shed in a series of increasingly painful lay-offs; people whose lives were hurt by the decisions of strangers they didn't know either.  I was fortunate to exit with some degree of dignity and grace.  Not with a golden parachute. Not as a dot.com millionaire.  But I got off the ride with only minor damage to my psyche.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That left me with plenty of time to catch up on some reading.  During one trip to the library I noticed a book called &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Tipping Point&lt;/span&gt;, by Malcolm Gladwell. I remembered that one of my two closest colleagues had been intrigued by it, so I checked it out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm fond of saying that most models are wrong, but some are useful.  &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Tipping Point&lt;/span&gt; is useful. Malcolm Gladwell applies the epidemiological concept of a tipping point to fads and fashions and social changes in modern life.  In the middle of it he describes "The Rule of 150".  Drawing on scientific research, business operation of the unusual company that made Goretex, and leadership insight from military history and agrarian villages, Gladwell describes how we humans work best in social groups limited to a maximum of 150 people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not 150 thousand.  Not 150 million.  Just one hundred fifty.  Larger groups tend to fragment and organizations tend to fall apart at the seams if they don't account for that limit.  Things fall apart when we don't observe the Rule of 150.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gladwell describes a simple exercise to illustrate the Rule of 150 to readers.  Open a phone book and count the number of last names you recognize.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Open a phone book.  Count the names you recognize.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well, I had a flashback, of course. A visual image popped into my mind so suddenly that it startled me. Years had passed. I had totally forgotten my depressing scan of my former employer's phone list.  But when I read those instructions I could &lt;em&gt;see&lt;/em&gt; the number 147 scribbled in the margin of an old phone directory.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For me that was a more than an exercise.  I &lt;em&gt;knew&lt;/em&gt; from unpleasant personal experience what the Rule of 150 meant.  Things fall apart when we ignore the Rule of 150.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There's more to &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Tipping Point&lt;/span&gt; besides the Rule of 150.  There's more I could write about it, but this is &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/not" target="_blank"&gt;not&lt;/a&gt; a &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/books#book-reviews" target="_blank"&gt;book review&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most models are wrong, but some are useful.  &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Tipping Point&lt;/span&gt; presents a useful model.  The Rule of 150 is important.  In fact, I suspect The Rule of 150 will turn out to be absolutely crucial if we are to make a successful transition to a sustainable human culture.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;--&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A primatologist who writes at the blog, The Primate Diaries, contributes a related perspective on cities full of strangers and wonders, &lt;a target="_blank" title="Primate Diaries blog essay" href="http://primatediaries.blogspot.com/2007/08/evolution-of-metapopulations-and-future.html"&gt;Who's your neighbor&lt;/a&gt;?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.gladwell.com/tippingpoint/index.html" target="_blank" title="author's web site"&gt;The Tipping Point&lt;/a&gt;, at Gladwell's web site&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-4917408388470350824?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/4917408388470350824/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=4917408388470350824' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/4917408388470350824'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/4917408388470350824'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/08/rule-of-150-minus-three.html' title='The Rule of 150, minus three'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-280470153917077320</id><published>2007-08-16T10:24:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-16T12:55:39.759-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Books'/><title type='text'>A few books I've mentioned elsewhere</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;In the course of commenting at other blogs and web sites I've mentioned some books that I have not yet listed here.  For the sake of posterity and future reference I thought I should consolidate them in this quick list.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Disclaimer:  I mention these because I have found them useful.  Other than that, what passes for a running joke around here is my oft-repeated assertion that &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/books#book-reviews" target="_blank" title="new window upon BluePuzzle.org"&gt;I don't do book reviews&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Tipping_Point_%28book%29#Key_concepts" target="_blank" title="notes from The Tipping Point"&gt;The Tipping Point&lt;/a&gt;, by Malcolm Gladwell.&lt;br /&gt;This little book really deserves a post of its own.  Someday it will get what it deserves.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.blessedunrest.com/" target="_blank" title="new book by Paul Hawken"&gt;Blessed Unrest&lt;/a&gt;: How the Largest Movement In the World Came Into Being and Why No One Saw it Coming, by Paul Hawken&lt;br /&gt;Never judge a book by its cover ... only by its subtitle.  This is a new one from Paul Hawken, an influential thinker in the sustainability field.  The subtitle suggests to me that he might address an issue mentioned in another book:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.culturalcreatives.org/book.html" target="_blank" title="one worth skimming"&gt;The Cultural Creatives&lt;/a&gt;, by Paul Ray and Sherry Anderson&lt;br /&gt;The authors describe a large group of Americans, tens of millions, characterized by a kind of counter-cultural creativity and the feeling that they're totally alone in their views. For me it was worth skimming for tidbits like that, but some portions of the book didn't grab me.  Their work does complement the work of others, though, such as Hawken.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.urbantribes.net/about_the_book/index.html" target="_blank" title="two, two, two books in one!"&gt;Urban Tribes&lt;/a&gt;, by Ethan Watters&lt;br /&gt;Another mixed bag.  It's really two books in one cover.  I found much value in the first half, which is about an unexpected phenomenon that the author discovered while trying to write the second half.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.chelseagreen.com/1998/items/gaviotas" target="_blank" title="often overlooked, please look it over!"&gt;Gaviotas&lt;/a&gt;, by Alan Weisman&lt;br /&gt;Weisman describes an extraordinary village, Gaviotas, that really ought to be utterly ordinary.  For 95% of human history, it &lt;em&gt;was&lt;/em&gt; utterly ordinary. I had the great good fortune to &lt;a href="http://friendsofgaviotas.org/" target="_blank" title="seminar sponsored by Friends of Gaviotas"&gt;meet Paolo Lugari&lt;/a&gt;, founder of Gaviotas.  Like the village, Lugari is extraordinary, but we really ought to make people like him utterly ordinary.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.powells.com/cgi-bin/biblio?inkey=1-9780609805367-4" target="_blank" title="information at Powells Books"&gt;Beyond Civilization&lt;/a&gt;, by Daniel Quinn&lt;br /&gt;Some folks have trouble "getting" this one.  I recommend reading it along with Urban Tribes and Gaviotas.  These three pieces connect very neatly, and the examples in the other two help to make this one more understandable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;More pieces assembled at &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/books#three-key-pieces" title="no batteries required"&gt;BluePuzzle.org/books&lt;/a&gt; ...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-280470153917077320?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/280470153917077320/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=280470153917077320' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/280470153917077320'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/280470153917077320'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/08/few-books-ive-mentioned-elsewhere.html' title='A few books I&apos;ve mentioned elsewhere'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-6296722765479132974</id><published>2007-08-13T14:30:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-13T15:35:21.737-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Enough rolling rocks</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;In Greek mythology a guy named Sisyphus was condemned to roll a great big rock up a hill, over and over.  Every time he made some progress rolling that rock up the hill, the rock would roll back to the bottom, and Sisyphus would start pushing the rock all over again.  He was forced to.  That was his &lt;em&gt;punishment&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have met Sisyphus.  In fact, I see him often.  I see Sisyphus among would-be activists who seek social change.  And I see Sisyphus among the many folks who seek to prevent any social change at any social cost.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have met Sisyphus.  In fact, I have &lt;em&gt;been&lt;/em&gt; Sisyphus.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have spent more than enough of my time rolling great big rocks up great big hills, only to watch them roll down again.  I know the frustration, and I know the pain of crushed fingers and crushed toes and crushed ego when those rocks escape and roll downhill.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Often I would ask myself, after a lot of cursing, but before starting over again, "Why am I doing this?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Usually that was just a different way to say, "Darn, this sucks."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Eventually, however, after many tiring trips partway up a hill, after crushed fingers, crushed toes, and crushed ego, someone else asked me similar questions, but in a different way, a way that led to an insight.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;"Why are you doing THIS?  Why are you not doing something else?  What is it about this rock that makes you think it's worth so much frustration?  What will happen if you actually get this thing up to the top? Will you be happy then?  What's your real goal here?"&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Answering those questions helped me to realize that I was really trying to accomplish something else. Answering those questions helped me to see that rolling the rock up the hill was not my real goal, that getting the rock to the top of the hill wouldn't make me happy.  All I really wanted was a little decorative landscaping on the other side of the hill.  The rock seemed like a good idea at first, before I discovered how difficult it was to move.  Somehow I just got caught up in the challenge of rolling the rock, even though it wasted my time and wasted my effort and made me tired and angry.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sisyphus was forced to keep rolling his rock.  Sisyphus was being punished by others.  He wasn't allowed to stop.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But I could stop.  I did stop.  When I remembered that all I really wanted was decorative landscaping, it became obvious that the rock was a great big distraction.  And then it became easier to let the rock go and to concentrate my effort on what I really wanted.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I encounter many otherwise nice people who become angry, tired, and surly, because they're frustrated by the rocks they're trying to roll uphill. If I suggest to any of those folks that they might consider stopping, they look at me as if I'm crazy.  They look at me as if I've just arrived from another planet.  "You're not from &lt;em&gt;around&lt;/em&gt; here, are you?!" they snap.  "Rolling rocks up hills is what we &lt;em&gt;do&lt;/em&gt; here."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Habit. Culture.  Cultural habits.  Habitual culture.  "This is what we &lt;em&gt;do&lt;/em&gt;!  How can we possibly &lt;em&gt;stop&lt;/em&gt;?!"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But really, how often do we need another rock on a hilltop?  How often do we recall why we started trying to move heavy objects in the first place?  Do we even know what we're really trying to accomplish?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It worries me to see so much effort wasted on painful, unnecessary tasks. It saddens me to see so many nice people turn bitter, cynical, and &lt;em&gt;unhelpful&lt;/em&gt; in the process.  It saddens me to see people burn out this way.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As a culture, as a nation, as a company, as individuals, have we asked ourselves what we really want to accomplish?  Why do we believe that rolling heavy rocks uphill will work?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's surprising, no, it's &lt;em&gt;amazing&lt;/em&gt;, how often asking ourselves those questions leads to different methods, different solutions, and even new and different goals.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sometimes, of course, what we really want is still difficult to achieve, more difficult than decorative landscaping.  But isn't it a better use of our time to concentrate on our real goals, difficult as they may be, than to waste our time and effort on distractions, than to persist in habits that accomplish nothing except to make us unhappy?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Suppose we stop rolling rocks out of habit. Suppose we try to figure out what rolling those rocks was supposed to accomplish.  Suppose we find another way to accomplish that goal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;--&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Related pieces:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"&lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/culture" target="_blank" title="more thoughts about culture"&gt;You're not from &lt;em&gt;around&lt;/em&gt; here, are you?! Rolling rocks up hills is what we &lt;em&gt;do&lt;/em&gt; here&lt;/a&gt;."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/finger-trap" target="_blank" title="finding alternate methods"&gt;Escaping a deceptive trap&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/17-0553375407-1" target="_blank" title="remembering answers to questions long forgotten"&gt;Why are we doing THIS?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-6296722765479132974?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/6296722765479132974/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=6296722765479132974' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/6296722765479132974'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/6296722765479132974'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/08/enough-rolling-rocks.html' title='Enough rolling rocks'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-3222908252191614336</id><published>2007-07-26T13:32:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-02-27T14:08:25.858-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='brief thoughts'/><title type='text'>Culture is pervasive</title><content type='html'>That's part of what makes it "culture" in the first place, don't you think?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;font-style:italic"&gt;Culture&lt;/span&gt;: the &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/math" title="just a few observed behaviors" target="_blank"&gt;things we do&lt;/a&gt;, and the &lt;a href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/01/no-more-burned-marshmallows.html"&gt;stories&lt;/a&gt; we tell about doing them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;More at &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/culture" target="_blank" title="culture continued at My Blue Puzzle Piece"&gt;BluePuzzle.org&lt;/a&gt; ...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-3222908252191614336?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/3222908252191614336/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=3222908252191614336' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3222908252191614336'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3222908252191614336'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/07/culture-is-pervasive.html' title='Culture is pervasive'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-7602076693110759125</id><published>2007-06-13T14:47:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-06-13T15:48:55.479-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Being a good person despite bad outcomes</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;One of the most useful things I learned from Peter Senge's book, &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/books#three-key-pieces" target="_blank" title="book: The Fifth Discipline"&gt;The Fifth Discipline&lt;/a&gt;, is that bad outcomes often occur despite the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;good&lt;/span&gt; intentions of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;good people&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So often we work so hard to distance ourselves from bad  events because we don't feel safe if we are associated with anything bad.  It's fashionable to talk smart about responsibility and accountability, but &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;we all know&lt;/span&gt; that it's not safe to be responsible.  In our culture, to be responsible is to be guilty.  In our culture, to be responsible is to be blamed.  In our culture, to be responsible is to be a bad person.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Of course no one will sign up for that!  It's a bad deal.  No one wants to be labeled a bad person.  But we label each other that way every day.  Heck, we label &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;ourselves&lt;/span&gt; that way. And then we wonder why no one will ever voluntarily admit responsibility for anything.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To say that bad events occur despite good people is one of those things we all &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;think&lt;/span&gt; we know.  If asked about it, we nod and say, "Oh, of course."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But do we &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;behave&lt;/span&gt; as if we know that?  How often do we &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;behave as if we really believe&lt;/span&gt; that good people can remain good despite their participation in a series of unfortunate events?  How often do we behave as if we, ourselves, really believe that we remain good despite our own participation in bad outcomes?  If we really believe that, why do we still feel a need to distance ourselves from our participation in bad happenings?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There's another meaning to "responsible": Able to respond.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We can be responsible simply because &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;we have the ability to respond&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the first three chapters of &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/books#three-key-pieces" target="_blank" title="book: The Fifth Discipline"&gt;The Fifth Discipline&lt;/a&gt;, Senge shows how any competent person can end up making poor decisions because of job descriptions, because of role expectations, and because of hidden assumptions. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Becoming comfortable with the idea that my worth as a person is separate from the events that happen around me brings an incredible sense of freedom.  It's liberating! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don't have to work so hard to distance myself from bad stuff that happens around me.  I can acknowledge the bad stuff without dodging my &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;ability to respond&lt;/span&gt;. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I can afford a computer and Internet access to write this because I participate in a global economy that brings harm to other people. I participate in a system that brings harm to people and to the planet that keeps us alive.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am deeply disturbed by that system.  I am deeply disturbed  by the circumstances that perpetuate my participation. But I can acknowledge it because my goodness as a person is separate from the  badness of that system.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I can acknowledge it because I can &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;respond&lt;/span&gt;. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I learned that after reading &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/books#three-key-pieces" target="_blank" title="book: The Fifth Discipline"&gt;The Fifth Discipline&lt;/a&gt;.  And when I say "learn", I mean, I stopped nodding my head and pretending I knew it and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I began to behave as if it mattered&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-7602076693110759125?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/7602076693110759125/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=7602076693110759125' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/7602076693110759125'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/7602076693110759125'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/06/being-good-person-despite-bad-outcomes.html' title='Being a good person despite bad outcomes'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-6731294932628917692</id><published>2007-05-21T08:34:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-05-21T08:42:08.985-04:00</updated><title type='text'>note to RSS feed readers</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;Because my other web site is moving to &lt;a title="new permanent web site" target="_blank" href="http://bluepuzzle.org/"&gt;BluePuzzle.org&lt;/a&gt;, I will update some links here to reflect the new address.  That may cause older posts to reappear in your feed reader. I apologize in advance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the bright side, it can be an opportunity to see how those older essays fit with new ones.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for your interest and attention.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Cheers&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-6731294932628917692?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/6731294932628917692/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=6731294932628917692' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/6731294932628917692'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/6731294932628917692'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/05/note-to-rss-feed-readers.html' title='note to RSS feed readers'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-5615808684982292592</id><published>2007-05-18T14:41:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-05-18T15:10:44.077-04:00</updated><title type='text'>my new site, BluePuzzle.org</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;My new web site, &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/" title="My blue puzzle piece" target="_blank"&gt;BluePuzzle.org&lt;/a&gt;, is up and running, thanks to my friend &lt;a href="http://chrishardie.com/weblog/" target="_blank"&gt;Chris&lt;/a&gt; and his web hosting &lt;a href="http://summersault.com/" target="_blank" title="Summersault"&gt;assistance&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This blog will stay, but my other personal web site (at &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;home.nc.rr.com/sustain&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;) will go away as soon as the new one appears at the usual web search sites.  If you have a bookmark or a link, please update it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think of this blog as a rough draft writing area.  Ideas are scattered around here, and though tags help to &lt;a title="key pieces" target="_blank" href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/search/label/Key%20pieces"&gt;connect some of the pieces&lt;/a&gt;, reverse chronological presentation still restricts the way ideas can be assembled here.  &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/" title="My blue puzzle piece" target="_blank"&gt;BluePuzzle.org&lt;/a&gt; is a place where I can assemble and rearrange ideas in more interesting and &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/george-box" title="Most models are wrong, but..." target="_blank"&gt;useful&lt;/a&gt; ways.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for stopping by.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Cheers&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-5615808684982292592?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/5615808684982292592/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=5615808684982292592' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/5615808684982292592'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/5615808684982292592'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/05/my-new-site-bluepuzzleorg.html' title='my new site, BluePuzzle.org'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-420232214268429972</id><published>2007-05-04T08:44:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-03-27T11:51:01.108-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='brief thoughts'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Books'/><title type='text'>Saramago's observation of conflict</title><content type='html'>&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;Fighting has always been, more or less, a form of blindness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A quote from &lt;a title="description at Powells books" href="http://www.powells.com/cgi-bin/biblio?inkey=1-9780156007757-10"&gt;Blindness&lt;/a&gt;, by &lt;a title="more about Saramago" href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/02/two-worth-reading.html"&gt;Jose Saramago&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-420232214268429972?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/420232214268429972/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=420232214268429972' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/420232214268429972'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/420232214268429972'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/05/saramagos-observation-of-conflict.html' title='Saramago&apos;s observation of conflict'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-4368023023902113873</id><published>2007-04-22T13:57:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-05-21T08:45:16.483-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Google's Earth Day logo</title><content type='html'>&lt;img alt="melting iceberg spells Google" style="margin: auto;" src="http://www.google.com/logos/earthday07.gif" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When we begin to live in sustainable ways, every day will be Earth Day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Until then, designating at least one day to focus attention on the state of our planet, to focus attention on the state of our home, that's a good deed.  I commend the many people and organizations who make &lt;a title="Google Earth Day links" href="http://www.google.com/search?q=earth+day"&gt;Earth Day&lt;/a&gt; notable, including Google.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As serious and as urgent as global warming is, it's the tip of the iceberg of sustainability.  Let's spend some time over the next 364 days to explore &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/iceberg" title="more about icebergs..." target="_blank"&gt;the rest of the iceberg&lt;/a&gt;, shall we?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How will we live when we discover that it's not the ends, but the &lt;em&gt;beginnings&lt;/em&gt; that justify our means?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for your time and attention&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-4368023023902113873?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/4368023023902113873/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=4368023023902113873' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/4368023023902113873'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/4368023023902113873'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/04/googles-earth-day-logo.html' title='Google&apos;s Earth Day logo'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-2120784893516945754</id><published>2007-04-15T17:50:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-04-16T13:57:17.206-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Thanks. It's nice to be noticed.</title><content type='html'>Karmen, who blogs at &lt;a href="http://scienceblogs.com/chaoticutopia/" target="_blank"&gt;Chaotic Utopia&lt;/a&gt;, kindly designated me a Thinking Blogger.  Thanks, Karmen, it's nice to be noticed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like the &lt;a href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/08/book-meme.html" target="_blank"&gt;ten books meme&lt;/a&gt;, this blog meme offers an opportunity to share what we care about.  Following the Thinking Blogger links forward and &lt;a target="_blank" title="Thinking Blogger Award at Chatoic Utopia" href="http://scienceblogs.com/chaoticutopia/2007/04/thinking_blogger_award.php"&gt;backward&lt;/a&gt; can be an interesting way to catch a glimpse of things other writers care about.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Thinking Blogger Award is a &amp;ldquo;name five&amp;rdquo; meme. My task is to share what I care about by naming five more Thinking Bloggers.  Very well, then &amp;mdash; in no particular order, here are five more bloggers in this meme's path:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://chrishardie.com/weblog/" title="chris hardie's blog" target="_blank"&gt;Chris Hardie&lt;/a&gt; - Along with his personal blog, Chris has created a &lt;a href="http://www.richmondnewsreview.com/" target="_blank" title="Richmond News Review"&gt;podcast site&lt;/a&gt; to explore news local to his town.  How many of us have been &lt;a href="http://www.richmondnewsreview.com/about/" title="about the richmond news review" target="_blank"&gt;compared to a one-man version of National Public Radio&lt;/a&gt;?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://christinekane.com/blog/lose-your-title-save-your-life/" target="_blank" title="Christine Kane's blog"&gt;Christine Kane&lt;/a&gt; - An Asheville-based musician when she's not blogging, Christine often writes about themes that overlap mine, but she writes from a somewhat different point of view, with a different vocabulary, for a different audience.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://greenespace.blogspot.com/" title="GreeneSpace" target="_blank"&gt;Sally Greene&lt;/a&gt; - Chapel Hill is the sort of place where a woman who writes a thoughtful blog about literature, architecture, urban planning, and the environment can be elected to local government.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://scienceblogs.com/worldsfair/" target="_blank" title="World's Fair"&gt;World's Fair&lt;/a&gt; - co-written by two guys who teach at two universities on two coasts* of two countries, World's Fair has &amp;ldquo;all manner of human creativity on display&amp;rdquo;.  I'm pleased to see their creativity sometimes &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://scienceblogs.com/worldsfair/natureland_what_they_used_to_call_the_environment/"&gt;demonstrates systems thinking about sustainability issues&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://stoplighthaiku.net/" title="stoplight haiku poetry blog" target="_blank"&gt;Stoplight Haiku&lt;/a&gt; - Sometimes thoughts have exactly 17 syllables. Sometimes they don't.  Either way, they're haiku thoughts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img alt="Thinking Blogger Award graphic" style="display:block;margin:auto" src="http://img201.imageshack.us/img201/421/thinkingblogger2ql6.jpg" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*Okay, so one of the universities is somewhat inland. It's coastal when compared to, say, Nebraska.  And it makes the sentence's parallel structure work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I notice the meme originated with the suggested name &amp;ldquo;5 Blogs That Make Me Think&amp;rdquo;. Two months later it seems better known as the &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://www.thethinkingblog.com/2007/02/thinking-blogger-awards_11.html" title="thinking blogger award meme origin"&gt;Thinking Blogger Award&lt;/a&gt;.  &lt;a href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/08/book-meme.html" title="memes and copying" target="_blank"&gt;Memes often spread via inexact copying&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-2120784893516945754?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/2120784893516945754/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=2120784893516945754' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/2120784893516945754'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/2120784893516945754'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/04/thanks-its-nice-to-be-noticed.html' title='Thanks. It&apos;s nice to be noticed.'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-4165342117615867342</id><published>2007-04-06T17:10:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-05-21T18:35:06.124-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Books'/><title type='text'>Vine Deloria, Jr., a career summary and a play in one act</title><content type='html'>Recently I began reading some books by native American Indian author Vine Deloria, Jr.  So far I enjoy his unorthodox approach and his playful, witty, and provocative style.  I find value in his apparent role as trickster.  I think I see what he wanted his readers to see.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not everyone appreciates the role of &lt;a target="_blank" title="Coyote, trickster and teacher" href="http://members.cox.net/academia/coyote.html"&gt;trickster as teacher&lt;/a&gt;, however, especially outside of native cultures.  As I do some more research about the man I notice that some of the folks who criticize him seem mostly baffled by his unconventional perspective.  It occurred to me that Vine Deloria, Jr.'s career might be summarized in a very brief one act play...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Vine Deloria, Jr.&lt;/span&gt;:  I reject the rules of white culture.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Critics&lt;/span&gt;:  &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Goshdarnit, Deloria!  You're not playing by our rules!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Vine Deloria, Jr.&lt;/span&gt;:  No kidding.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Since I have previously declared that &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://bluepuzzle.org/books#book-reviews"&gt;I don't do book reviews&lt;/a&gt;, this certainly should &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://bluepuzzle.org/not"&gt;not&lt;/a&gt; be construed as one.  I'm just noting another instance of &lt;a href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/03/denying-people-right-to-their-own.html" target="puzzlepiece"&gt;personal&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/see#perspective" target="puzzlepiece"&gt;perspective&lt;/a&gt; on &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/culture" target="puzzlepiece"&gt;culture&lt;/a&gt;, another illustration of &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/see" target="puzzlepiece"&gt;faces and vases&lt;/a&gt;, of &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/iceberg" target="puzzlepiece"&gt;icebergs&lt;/a&gt; and the &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/intro" target="puzzlepiece"&gt;illusion of communication&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yup, that's all, really.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-4165342117615867342?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/4165342117615867342/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=4165342117615867342' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/4165342117615867342'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/4165342117615867342'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/04/vine-deloria-jr-career-summary-and-play.html' title='Vine Deloria, Jr., a career summary and a play in one act'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-8347459527554424338</id><published>2007-03-28T21:30:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-09-01T10:36:39.805-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='solving problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Key pieces'/><title type='text'>Seeking solutions in the culture domain</title><content type='html'>A while ago I wrote a &lt;a target="aside" href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/12/culture-as-conspiracy-theory.html"&gt;brief satirical bit about culture&lt;/a&gt;, comparing culture to conspiracy.  And the occasional reader who lands here after following my comments at other web sites may notice that I use the word &amp;ldquo;culture&amp;rdquo; frequently.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My reason is simple:  &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/george-box" target="aside"&gt;The concept of culture is a model I find useful&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Since I use the word so often it occurs to me that I should begin to explain how I think about culture and why I find it so useful.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Satirical comparisons aside, one broad working definition of culture I like to use is this:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;Culture is what we do,&lt;br /&gt;and the stories we tell about why we do it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You know the advice, &amp;ldquo;&lt;em&gt;When in Rome, do as the Romans do&lt;/em&gt;&amp;rdquo;?  That's culture.  When someone looks at me strangely and asks, &amp;ldquo;&lt;em&gt;You're not from around here, are you?&lt;/em&gt;&amp;rdquo;  That's culture.   On the first day at a new job, when someone says, &amp;ldquo;&lt;em&gt;That's not how we &lt;strong&gt;do&lt;/strong&gt; things around here!&lt;/em&gt;&amp;rdquo;  That's culture.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When someone says, &amp;ldquo;&lt;em&gt;I can't do that because I'm a Somethingist&lt;/em&gt;&amp;rdquo;, that's a culture story.  When someone says, &amp;ldquo;&lt;em&gt;I &lt;strong&gt;must&lt;/strong&gt; do this because I'm a Somethingist&lt;/em&gt;&amp;rdquo;, that's another culture story.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Every day, we humans &lt;em&gt;do&lt;/em&gt; things. And we explain to each other why we do those things and why don't do other things. Every day we navigate a sea of deeds, steering by the stories we tell. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(Sometimes we navigate totally on autopilot, by habit, following courses plotted by stories we no longer bother to pay attention to. But &lt;em&gt;that's&lt;/em&gt; a story for another day.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Okay, interesting metaphor, that, but what's it good for?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well, for one thing, thinking about what we do and the stories we tell to explain ourselves is a different way of seeing.  It's a perspective that I rarely see or hear mentioned in the news, in blogs, in conversation.  Seeing from the perspective of culture exposes facets of our world that remain hidden when viewed only from the perspective of economics or from the perspective of politics.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But more than that, thinking in terms of culture offers a way to simplify some complex issues. It offers a way to transform thorny, intractable problems with unsatisfying half solutions into simpler, manageable problems with potentially satisfying solutions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This concept of a transform comes from my background in engineering.  Sometimes, for example, a math problem seems incredibly complicated, tedious, and difficult when it's expressed in terms of &lt;em&gt;time&lt;/em&gt;.  If that problem can be rewritten, if it can be expressed in terms of &lt;em&gt;frequency&lt;/em&gt;, it may be easier to analyze and easier to solve. Then when an answer has been found in terms of frequency, that solution can be transformed back, to be expressed in terms of time.  The problem and its solution can be &lt;em&gt;transformed&lt;/em&gt; back and forth between the &amp;ldquo;time domain&amp;rdquo; and the &amp;ldquo;frequency domain&amp;rdquo;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But I'm not interested in math problems anymore.   I'm interested in environmental problems.  I'm interested in social problems. I'm interested in economic problems. I'm even interested in (eeww!) political problems.   And when I spend time with like-minded people who hope to solve those problems, I see some of my colleagues expend enormous energy and time grappling with intractable methods that lead to unsatisfying half solutions (and worse, to new problems).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It seems to me there's an easier way.  It seems to me that politics boils down to things that people do and stories we tell each other about why we do those things.  The Economy and the businesses that operate within The Economy are just things that people do and stories about why we do them.   Crime, poverty, and public education?  Things we do. Stories we tell.  And the environment?  Our home planet is going downhill fast as a consequence of the things people do and the stories we tell each other about why we continue to do them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's &lt;em&gt;culture&lt;/em&gt;.  Deeds and stories.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It seems to me that culture ties together all those other problem domains.  Culture is their common denominator, their common variable. That means all those problems can be expressed in terms of culture.  Those problems can be &lt;em&gt;transformed&lt;/em&gt; into the &lt;em&gt;culture domain&lt;/em&gt;.  I'm confident there are simpler solutions &amp;mdash; &lt;em&gt;in the culture domain&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And after we've found simpler, more satisfying solutions, we can &amp;mdash; if we wish &amp;mdash; transform those solutions back to the economic domain, back to the political domain, back to the public school domain.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm confident our problems can be solved.  I'm confident that satisfying solutions can be found &amp;mdash; &lt;em&gt;but not in the domains where many folks are currently looking&lt;/em&gt;.  We've been trying for years and years to solve problems of crime and poverty and pollution in the political domain or the economic domain.  How many stories do we tell each other about why we keep trying to do those things?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm tired of economic misdeeds and political fairy tales.  I'm tired of so-called solutions that create new problems.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For the sake of our children and grandchildren, we need to do things differently.  That means we need a better story to make sense of the things we do.  That's culture.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And that's why I talk about culture so much.  That's why I look at problems from the perspective of the culture domain.  That's why I seek solutions within the culture domain. That's why I see culture as a model that's useful.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-------------------------------------------&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Something to keep in mind about this model of culture: &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/george-box" target="_blank"&gt;Most models are wrong, but some are useful.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Culture: &amp;nbsp;things we do, stories we tell.  See &lt;a title="a book about culture" target="_blank" href="http://www.solonline.org/FifthDiscipline/introduction/"&gt;The Fifth Discipline&lt;/a&gt;, by Peter Senge, for example.  Also &lt;a title="a book about political culture" target="_blank"   href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/1-0226467716-0"&gt;Moral Politics: How Liberals and Conservatives Think&lt;/a&gt;, by George Lakoff, and &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/17-0553375407-1" title="a book about the history of our culture"&gt;Ishmael&lt;/a&gt;, by Daniel Quinn.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;See how this piece fits other pieces at &lt;a target="_blank" title="assembling these pieces" href="http://bluepuzzle.org/see"&gt;BluePuzzle.org&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-8347459527554424338?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/8347459527554424338/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=8347459527554424338' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/8347459527554424338'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/8347459527554424338'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/03/seeking-solutions-in-culture-domain.html' title='Seeking solutions in the culture domain'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-453940781920343760</id><published>2007-03-16T14:10:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-03-16T14:38:10.917-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Denying people the right to their own experiences</title><content type='html'>&lt;img src="http://photos1.blogger.com/x/blogger/7401/2454/320/340244/vase-small.gif" style="float: right; width: 50%; margin-left: 1em;border:1px solid gray;padding:0" /&gt; I see faces in this picture.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No, you don't.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Huh?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I repeat, you do not see faces in that picture.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well, I understand that you may not see faces, but &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No! I mean, &lt;em&gt;you&lt;/em&gt;! You. Do. Not. See. Faces.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh.  Well, um, I'm kind of taken aback by that. I'm pretty sure my own personal experience seems real and legitimate to me.  And I'm not saying that you have to experience it exactly the same way, too. I'm just trying to share a description of something I see.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So what?  I don't care.  I see vase.  So you see vase.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ummmm ... well, that doesn't work for me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Doesn't matter. I don't care.  It's a vase.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-453940781920343760?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/453940781920343760/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=453940781920343760' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/453940781920343760'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/453940781920343760'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/03/denying-people-right-to-their-own.html' title='Denying people the right to their own experiences'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-916576357059331400</id><published>2007-02-23T18:00:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-02-23T17:59:04.465-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Key pieces'/><title type='text'>Tip of the iceberg</title><content type='html'>&lt;blockquote&gt;The world weighs on my shoulders&lt;br /&gt;But what am I to do?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You sometimes drive me crazy&lt;br /&gt;But I worry about you&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know it makes no difference&lt;br /&gt;To what you're going through&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But I see the tip of the iceberg&lt;br /&gt;And I worry about you...&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7401/2454/320/iceberg-clevenger-small.jpg" style="margin: 5px; float: right;border:none" /&gt; I often think about the metaphor of “the tip of the iceberg”.  It's a common phrase, and we all know it suggests there may be something huge, mysterious, and dangerous hidden from our view. But do we use that knowledge effectively?  Does it make a difference?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The world weighs on my shoulders...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Over the course of a couple of years I participated in many earnest conversations about the future of humanity and the fate of our planet.  I found it amazing, and frustrating, how often conversations among dedicated, like-minded people turned to anger and acrimony.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;You sometimes drive me crazy...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After a while I learned to recognize the pattern. I learned to spot the icebergs and  to predict their intersecting courses.  I tried to warn folks.  Like the familiar history of a certain ship, people would wave me off and say, "There's no iceberg out there. Even if there is, it doesn't pose a threat to me."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I know it makes no difference...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Icebergs are big, slow-moving, and ponderous.  There's plenty of time to change course, to steer a conversation differently.  But there's no iceberg out there.  And even if there is, it's not a threat.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;But I see the tip of the iceberg...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Crunch.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After a while all those colliding conversations begin to look the same to me.  I see frustrated people standing on the tips of icebergs, shouting angrily, throwing snowballs at each other, wondering what happened.  And they're far apart.  Too far to talk, usually.  Below the waterline the hidden parts of icebergs collide long before their tips ever meet.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;But what am I to do?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sometimes people declare, "You can't say this. You can't have that conversation. It just doesn't work."  I can see why.  But I find greater value in thinking of the situation this way:  In what circumstances &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;could&lt;/span&gt; we have that conversation?  To whom can we say that? When, and where?  &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;In what circumstance is it safe to have that conversation?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It seems to me the important first step is to acknowledge the existence of the hidden part of the iceberg.  Too often we try to talk about the tips of icebergs without recognizing the submerged assumptions, the accumulated history of  feelings and memories below the surface.  Even if we don't talk about those things explicitly, if we can at least acknowledge they exist, if we can recognize the rest of the iceberg and adjust to accommodate it, then we might have more satisfying dialog.  Then we might have more &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;effective&lt;/span&gt;, more &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;productive&lt;/span&gt; dialog.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We might invite other people over to our iceberg.  Or we might climb down from the tips of our personal icebergs and meet elsewhere. Sometimes we might mean saying, "Sure, we can talk about that, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;but not here&lt;/span&gt;." Or it might mean deciding, "This is better suited to a &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;different audience&lt;/span&gt;."  Mostly I think it means behaving as if we know the iceberg is there.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I see the tip of the iceberg...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;I've seen the tip of the iceberg, and I've learned that &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;acknowledging the rest of it does make a difference &lt;/span&gt;to what we're going through.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-------------------------------------------&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"I see the tip of the iceberg" quoted from the song, &lt;a href="http://www.2112.net/xanadu/lyrics/gup.html" target="_blank"&gt;Distant Early Warning&lt;/a&gt;, lyrics by Neil Peart, Rush, &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grace_Under_Pressure_%28Rush_album%29"&gt;Grace Under Pressure&lt;/a&gt;, 1984.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.snopes.com/photos/natural/iceberg.asp" target="_blank"&gt;Photo&lt;/a&gt; by Ralph Clevenger, 1999&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is a follow-up to an earlier piece: &lt;a href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/07/of-icebergs-npr-and-language.html"&gt;Of icebergs, NPR, and language&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-916576357059331400?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/916576357059331400/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=916576357059331400' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/916576357059331400'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/916576357059331400'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/02/tip-of-iceberg.html' title='Tip of the iceberg'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-7095470039594322289</id><published>2007-02-13T19:14:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-12-11T01:17:27.739-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='allegory'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Books'/><title type='text'>Two worth reading</title><content type='html'>&lt;blockquote style="font-style: italic;"&gt;We shall not cease from exploration&lt;br /&gt;And the end of all our exploring&lt;br /&gt;Will be to arrive where we started&lt;br /&gt;And know the place for the first time. &lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 5px 0pt; clear: both; float: left;" title="Changing Planes cover image" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_M9dYNftXsiI/RdJHfB6haZI/AAAAAAAAAAM/nokxURKQAfY/s320/ChangingPlanes_thumb.jpg" alt="Changing Planes cover" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5031162332141676946" /&gt;  I've been planning to recommend Ursula K. Le Guin's delightful book, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Changing Planes&lt;/span&gt;, since I discovered it a few weeks ago.  The reward for procrastination is an opportunity to pair it with Jose Saramago's unusual book, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Cave&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Changing Planes&lt;/span&gt; presents itself as a sly travelogue, a collection of short stories that describe some of the planes of existence a traveler can reach after experiencing the peculiar combination of stress, boredom, and indigestion that occurs only in a modern airport.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The book's back cover blurb observes that Le Guin's stories of exotic places and peoples all reflect the here and now of 21st century life. Most notable for me were the perpetually annoyed and squabbling people of Veks, the reckless genetic experiments on Islac, the thoughtful people of Ansarac who took some bad advice but abandoned it for their own time-tested wisdom, and the sad holiday island of Great Joy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;While searching &lt;a href="http://ursulakleguin.com/Note-Books-061210.html"&gt;Le Guin's web site&lt;/a&gt; for supplementary links I noticed her recommendation of Nobel prize-winner Jose Saramago's books, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Seeing&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Blindness&lt;/span&gt;, and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Cave&lt;/span&gt;.  The titles &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Seeing&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Blindness&lt;/span&gt; caught my eye because I've written a bit myself about &lt;a target="_blank" title="to be wise is to see..." href="http://bluepuzzle.org/see"&gt;seeing and not seeing&lt;/a&gt;. Saramago's writing style may challenge us, but readers who appreciate William Faulkner's page-long streams of consciousness should be equally comfortable with Saramago's technique.  What Saramago's charming characters discover deep within &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Cave&lt;/span&gt; is both disturbing and liberating:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&amp;ldquo;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;They are us!&lt;/span&gt;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;----------------------------------------------------------&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:75%"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/1-9780156028790-0"&gt;The Cave&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.powells.com/s?author=Jose%20Saramago"&gt;other books by Jose Saramago&lt;/a&gt; are available from Powell's and from &lt;a href="http://booksense.org"&gt;local bookstores&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ursula K. Le Guin's web site is &lt;a href="http://ursulakleguin.com/"&gt;worth exploring&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;ldquo;We shall not cease from exploration...&amp;rdquo;&lt;br /&gt;quoted from Four Quartets, by T.S. Eliot&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-7095470039594322289?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/7095470039594322289/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=7095470039594322289' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/7095470039594322289'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/7095470039594322289'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/02/two-worth-reading.html' title='Two worth reading'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_M9dYNftXsiI/RdJHfB6haZI/AAAAAAAAAAM/nokxURKQAfY/s72-c/ChangingPlanes_thumb.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-1168350580307713626</id><published>2007-01-21T16:58:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-01-25T09:33:13.249-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='allegory'/><title type='text'>Internet mud wrestling</title><content type='html'>As we careen headlong into a future that's globalized, industrialized, and urbanized, I suspect we lose our connection to our rural roots.  Barely a generation removed from the farm, we're already losing the context that informed the common sense our grandparents shared.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I hope we've retained some of their common sense, enough to appreciate the insights expressed in some of our grandparents' sayings.  Almost daily, on the Internet and on TV, I witness reminders of this one:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Never wrestle a pig in mud.&lt;br /&gt;You both get dirty --&lt;br /&gt;but the pig enjoys it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;The pig enjoys it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-1168350580307713626?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/1168350580307713626/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=1168350580307713626' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/1168350580307713626'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/1168350580307713626'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/01/internet-mud-wrestling.html' title='Internet mud wrestling'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-3334833499860580490</id><published>2007-01-16T11:51:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-05-21T18:22:56.054-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Seeking, finding ... seeing</title><content type='html'>To paraphrase ... some guys ... we can't always find what we want.  But if we try, we just might find what we need.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/see" target="_blank"&gt;To be wise is to see&lt;/a&gt;...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-3334833499860580490?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/3334833499860580490/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=3334833499860580490' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3334833499860580490'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3334833499860580490'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/01/seeking-finding-seeing.html' title='Seeking, finding ... seeing'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-2094063438965380775</id><published>2007-01-11T19:11:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-01-11T19:52:13.806-04:00</updated><title type='text'>No more burned marshmallows</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;My parents often took me camping when I was a young child.  At night we sat around the campfire, and sometimes we roasted marshmallows.  Well, my parents roasted their marshmallows.  I burned mine.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I hadn't yet learned patience. I was too eager to get to the toasty marshmallow result to spend much time holding the marshmallow away from the flames.   Clearly they toasted faster if they were held closer to the flames.  Or right in the flames.  Then they caught fire, burned, and charred.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Each time that happened, I blew out the flames around the blackened sugar lump, waited as long as I could stand for it to cool, and then ate it.  Sometimes I tried to remove the charred black crust, but that rarely worked.  So I ate burned, black,  slightly-sweetened charcoal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mmmm ... charcoal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I assured my mom and dad, and my friends when they camped with us, that &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"I really &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;like&lt;/span&gt; burned marshmallows!  I &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;enjoy&lt;/span&gt; eating them that way."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To prove it, I quit trying to toast them carefully.  I deliberately held every fresh marshmallow right in middle of the flames.  I became skilled at burning them.  I declared they were even tastier when they caught fire twice.  Three times even.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Mmmm ... I really &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;like &lt;/span&gt;burned marshmallows!"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But I didn't, of course.  Burned marshmallows taste bad.  They taste like burned ... well, they taste like burned &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;anything&lt;/span&gt;.  They taste burned.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Eventually I tired of pretending to enjoy burned marshmallows.  I decided that learning to be more patient might taste better than pretending to enjoy the flavor of charcoal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, as an adult, sometimes I see people work very hard to pretend that unpleasant outcomes are really &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;going just fine&lt;/span&gt;.  Often I hear people tell me things that sound remarkably similar to my childish proclamation, "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I really &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;like&lt;/span&gt; burned marshmallows!&lt;/span&gt;"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don't believe them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-2094063438965380775?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/2094063438965380775/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=2094063438965380775' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/2094063438965380775'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/2094063438965380775'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2007/01/no-more-burned-marshmallows.html' title='No more burned marshmallows'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-4699275616298066254</id><published>2006-12-18T17:21:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-12-18T17:26:51.362-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Culture as conspiracy theory</title><content type='html'>"Oh, you and your conspiracy theories!"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yeah, well, I tell ya what...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When a small group of people try to fool a bigger group, I call it conspiracy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When a small group of people try to fool themselves, I call it denial.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When we all try to fool each other, I call it &lt;em&gt;culture&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-4699275616298066254?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/4699275616298066254/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=4699275616298066254' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/4699275616298066254'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/4699275616298066254'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/12/culture-as-conspiracy-theory.html' title='Culture as conspiracy theory'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-3400992872566614296</id><published>2006-12-13T19:37:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-12-13T19:57:36.860-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='math as metaphor'/><title type='text'>Arithmetic allegory(3+1=4=1+3)</title><content type='html'>Did you just say, "3 + 1 = 4?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yes, I&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's all wrong!  4 = 1 + 3 !&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No, it's 3+1.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1+3!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3+1!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/11/to-be-wise-is-to-see_21.html"&gt;It seems to me there's something they do not see.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-3400992872566614296?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/3400992872566614296/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=3400992872566614296' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3400992872566614296'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/3400992872566614296'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/12/arithmetic-allegory-31413.html' title='Arithmetic allegory&lt;br /&gt;(3+1=4=1+3)'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-116490469048252534</id><published>2006-11-30T12:32:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-11-30T17:04:28.776-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Haiku tunnel (carpal)</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;The typing finger&lt;br /&gt;with carpal tunnel treatment&lt;br /&gt;having writ, moves on&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-116490469048252534?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/116490469048252534/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=116490469048252534' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/116490469048252534'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/116490469048252534'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/11/haiku-tunnel-carpal.html' title='Haiku tunnel (carpal)'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-116414753809177115</id><published>2006-11-21T18:17:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-05-21T09:16:37.847-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Key pieces'/><title type='text'>To be wise is to see</title><content type='html'>I'm intrigued by the notion of &lt;em&gt;seeing&lt;/em&gt; as a metaphor for learning and for &lt;em&gt;understanding&lt;/em&gt;. I'm also concerned about wisdom, how we apply our knowledge, and how we make decisions. So it caught my eye when Canadian blogger &lt;a target="_blank" title="Dave Pollard on word origins" href="http://blogs.salon.com/0002007/2006/07/07.html"&gt;Dave Pollard&lt;/a&gt; mentioned that the word “wise” originally meant “to see”. The Online Etymology web site &lt;a href="http://www.etymonline.com/index.php?term=wise" target="_blank"&gt;reveals&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&amp;nbsp;“to see,” hence “to know”&lt;br /&gt;  (see vision)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;See vision, indeed. See. Vision. Perspective. Viewpoint. Foresight. 20/20 hindsight. Insight. Take a close look. Take a closer look. Seeing is believing. Blind. Blindness. Blind spot.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do you see what I see? Do I see what you see? How do we compare and communicate what we see?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left" title="two faces illusion"  height="100" width="80" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/x/blogger/7401/2454/320/843891/two-faces-illusion-small.gif" /&gt; Have you ever been with other people while looking at one of those optical illusions? Have you ever been the one person who couldn't see what everyone else sees? It's frustrating! It's easy to suspect they're just playing a prank.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Or, have you ever tried to help someone to see the &lt;em&gt;other&lt;/em&gt; image? That can be frustrating, too. “Well, if you kinda squint your eyes this way and turn your head...now do you see it?”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In a way that experience is the whole point of this blog. It's the point of my other web sites, too. Can I see what you see? Can you see what I see? &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://bluepuzzle.org/math" title="some conversations about knowledge"&gt;How do we acknowledge and demonstrate what we see&lt;/a&gt;?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 10px 10px 0;border:0px" height="100" width="80" title="vase optical illusion" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/x/blogger/7401/2454/320/340244/vase-small.gif"  /&gt; It seems to me that our culture often tries to tell us there's only one thing that can be seen. Ever. If we see something else, well, we'd better keep it to ourselves. Our culture tells us, “This is a picture of a vase. It's only a vase. If you think you see something else in this picture, well, you're wrong! Because it's a vase.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We have 24-hour “news” channels, and magazines and newspapers and radio stations, all to remind us that this is a vase — and only a vase. Vase, vase, vase. Wait! Breaking news! “Some nut claims to see faces in this picture. Har har har, isn't that quaint? Faces! Now back to you, Sue, with the 5-day vase forecast.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Blindness. Blind spots. Vision. Perspective. Insight.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To see, hence, to know. To be wise is to &lt;em&gt;see&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-116414753809177115?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/116414753809177115/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=116414753809177115' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/116414753809177115'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/116414753809177115'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/11/to-be-wise-is-to-see_21.html' title='To be wise is to see'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-116413829950300715</id><published>2006-11-21T15:28:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-11-21T19:04:55.166-04:00</updated><title type='text'>A startlingly different view of the world</title><content type='html'>&lt;blockquote&gt;“He was constantly reminded of how startlingly different a place the world was when viewed from a point only three feet to the left.”&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's from &lt;a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/7-0345460952-1" target="_blank" title="The Salmon of Doubt by Douglas Adams"&gt;The Salmon of Doubt&lt;/a&gt;, the book Douglas Adams was writing when he died.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Imagine: A startlingly different place, and only three feet to the left.  It seems to me that three steps to the left is an easy journey to see a startlingly different world.  That's worth the trip, don't you think?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-116413829950300715?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/116413829950300715/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=116413829950300715' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/116413829950300715'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/116413829950300715'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/11/startlingly-different-view-of-world.html' title='A startlingly different view of the world'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-116290662829380859</id><published>2006-11-07T09:30:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-02-27T14:08:25.858-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='brief thoughts'/><title type='text'>Sides of a coin</title><content type='html'>“Oh, they're just two sides of the same coin.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yeah, well, have you ever looked at a coin?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The sides are &lt;em&gt;different&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;Today is a good day to vote.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-116290662829380859?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/116290662829380859/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=116290662829380859' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/116290662829380859'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/116290662829380859'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/11/sides-of-coin.html' title='Sides of a coin'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-116189306333700620</id><published>2006-10-26T15:49:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-10-26T16:05:13.516-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='math as metaphor'/><title type='text'>Some kinds of people</title><content type='html'>There are three kinds of people in the world: those who can do math, and those who can't.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No?  How about this:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are 10 kinds of people in the world: those who can do binary math, and the other 01.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hmmm...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are two kinds of people in the world: those who don't believe in categorizing others, and ...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Doh!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;----------&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;More at &lt;a href="http://www.davidberreby.com/work4.htm" target="_blank"&gt;DavidBerreby.com&lt;/a&gt; ...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-116189306333700620?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/116189306333700620/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=116189306333700620' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/116189306333700620'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/116189306333700620'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/10/some-kinds-of-people.html' title='Some kinds of people'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-116128900332170072</id><published>2006-10-19T16:13:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-05-21T18:25:58.944-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Books'/><title type='text'>I don't do book reviews</title><content type='html'>Books.  I like 'em.  I read a lot of them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Often I recommend them to others.  (Perhaps you noticed?)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately I suspect my recommendations might be more effective if I could muster the willpower to write detailed, enthusiastic reviews.  As much as I enjoy books, and as much I want others to appreciate the good ones, I greatly dislike writing book reviews.  They remind me too much of book reports and school homework assignments.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Reading a book is fun. Writing about it takes time away from reading the next one.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As a kid in fourth grade I went on strike over book reports.  I refused to write them.  Specifically, I declined to participate in a classroom contest to try to write more book reports than the other kids.  It seemed pretty clear to me that the contest was designed to get some (many?) of the kids to read more.  The prospect of gold stars and smiley stickers on a wall chart (or the prize, whatever it was) didn't offer much incentive to me.  I already averaged about four books checked out of the library at a time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My civil disobedience prompted an emergency parent-teacher conference.  Although I didn't exactly prevail, we did negotiate a concession:  I agreed to stop setting an example of disobedience in exchange for the teacher's acknowledgement that the contest wasn't likely to advance my education.&lt;a href="#footnotes"&gt;*&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now I have better incentive to write book &lt;strike&gt;reports&lt;/strike&gt; reviews.  I want other people to benefit from useful books as much I have.  I want other people to read those books. But book reviews still feel like homework to me, and writing them does take time away from reading them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately the statement, “You should read this book because I say so”, doesn't seem to work very well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I often think of books as tool boxes filled with idea tools.  I have some background in engineering so that feels like a natural and obvious approach.  For me, recommending a particular book is like recommending a particular tool for a particular task.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Hi, there.  I see you're pounding that nail with a brick.  How's that workin' for ya?  Have you considered a hammer instead?  I just happen to have a hammer right here.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/george-box" target="_blank" title="inspired by George Box"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most models are wrong, but some are useful&lt;/a&gt;.  Good books are full of ideas.  Some of them are wrong, but some of them are useful.  There are many I might recommend to a particular person in a particular situation.  There are a few I recommend widely because they're especially versatile. These are my Swiss Army, Leatherman, toolbox-in-paperback, recommended books:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/1-0226467716-0" target="_blank"&gt;Moral Politics: How Liberals and Conservatives Think&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;br /&gt;     by George Lakoff&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.solonline.org/FifthDiscipline/introduction/" target="_blank"&gt;The Fifth Discipline&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;br /&gt;by Peter Senge&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/17-0553375407-1" target="_blank"&gt;Ishmael&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;br /&gt;by Daniel Quinn&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Each of those three is really a subset of the author's ideas.  Each author has body of related work — more toolboxes filled with more tools — but those three are immediately useful.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know I should say more, of course.  But I'd rather be reading.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;---&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a id="footnotes"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* I give my 4th grade teacher, the late Mrs. Harder, a lot of credit for her unusually candid admission.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/books" target="_blank" title="books at Bluepuzzle.org"&gt;More book recommendations with inadequate reviews...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-116128900332170072?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/116128900332170072/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=116128900332170072' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/116128900332170072'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/116128900332170072'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/10/i-dont-do-book-reviews.html' title='I don&apos;t do book reviews'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-116031733380491515</id><published>2006-10-08T10:21:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-05-22T13:49:00.404-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tar Heel Tavern'/><title type='text'>Tarheel Tavern #85, setting an example</title><content type='html'>Welcome to this 85th example of the Tarheel Tavern.  Our theme this week is setting an example.  My friend and sustainability advocate, Chris, recently posted about &lt;a  target="_blank" href="http://www.chrishardie.com/weblog/archives/2006/10/inventory-of-sustainability-efforts-in-my-life.html"&gt;the ways he demonstrates sustainable living&lt;/a&gt;.  Like a &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://bluepuzzle.org/books#ten-books"&gt;blog meme&lt;/a&gt;, his example inspired me to think about the ways I try to demonstrate sustainable attitudes.  It also reminded me of the theme of &lt;a href="http://slowlysheturned.blogspot.com/" target="_blank" &gt;...Slowly she turned&lt;/a&gt;, a regular Tavern participant who is &lt;a  target="_blank" href="http://slowlysheturned.blogspot.com/2006/10/just-call-me-indecisive-or-not-i-dont.html"&gt;slowly turning&lt;/a&gt; toward a &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://slowlysheturned.net/"&gt;new blog host&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I remember commenting earlier this summer that part of the &lt;a  target="_blank" href="http://slowlysheturned.blogspot.com/2006/07/community-garden-row-update-eventually.html"&gt;value of her community gardening effort&lt;/a&gt; is to set an example.  When I experienced one of those light-bulb-over-the-head moments three years ago I realized my best contribution would be to persuade other people to see value in sustainable living. The value of mowing my lawn with an electric mower is for my neighbors to see me doing it.  The value of bringing my own reusable bags to the grocery store is for other shoppers to see me doing it.  I'm very conscious that the value of this blog and my other Internet projects is for readers to see ordinary, real-life examples.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mr. R., blogging at Evolgen, understands the value of teaching by example.  He's also aware of the challenge of setting a good example &lt;em&gt;consistently&lt;/em&gt;.  &lt;a  target="_blank" href="http://evoledu.blogspot.com/2006/10/feigning-excitement.html"&gt;As a science teacher he tries to inspire his students&lt;/a&gt;, but even the most dedicated science teacher can find it difficult to muster enthusiasm for nine straight weeks of nothing but &lt;a  target="_blank" href="http://www.dhmo.org/facts.html"&gt;dihydrogen oxide&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Writing Iddybud's Journal from the northern annex of Tarheel territory, Jude reflects on the challenge her mother faced and the influence of her mother's example.  And &lt;a  target="_blank" href="http://iddybud.blogspot.com/2006_10_07_iddybud_archive.html#116024249700930691"&gt;she finds the sacred within the ordinary&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mandie, approaching motherhood herself, &lt;a  target="_blank" href="http://www.captivatedbymandie.com/blog/2006/10/so-ive-missed-few-months-did-anyone.html"&gt;sets an example of frenzied activity&lt;/a&gt; that makes me tired just to summarize it.  Have you ever watched one of those home remodeling shows that recap a whole weekend of work in 30 seconds of frenzied sped-up video?  Well, Mandie set that pace without the benefit of video effects.  Picture a pregnant woman rebuilding multiple home appliances, cleaning gutters, jump-starting cars, constructing a corral, and taking crash courses in fire safety and plumbing 101, while eating chocolate and talking on the phone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If that makes you tired, you might catch your breath while watching telenovelas en español at Pratie Place.  Melinama describes &lt;a  target="_blank" href="http://pratie.blogspot.com/2006/10/putrify-in-hell-doa-jacinta.html"&gt;a lifetime of bad behavior by the character of Doña Jacinta&lt;/a&gt;. (Viewing hint: "You know she's bad because she dresses in black and carries a cane.") Although the bad &lt;span style="text-decoration: line-through;"&gt;guy&lt;/span&gt; gal goes down in flames, some viewers wonder if Jacinta escaped too easily.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Real-life TV photographer (but not real name), Colonel Corn describes an interview with a rock star who sets an example by &lt;a  target="_blank" href="http://colonelcornscamera.blogspot.com/2006/10/loose-ends.html"&gt;helping real life victims of abusive relationships&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A huge toxic waste fire in central North Carolina became a scary part of our real life this week. At Sustainability Southeast (another project in which I'm involved) we consider the example this sets: the example of our &lt;a href="http://sustainabilitysoutheast.org/" target="_blank" &gt;investment in our health&lt;/a&gt; and investment in our &lt;a  target="_blank" href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/06/tar-heel-tavern-70-qualities-of-life.html"&gt;quality of life&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Over in western North Carolina, the Scrutiny Hooligans observe that a politician sets &lt;a  target="_blank" href="http://scrutinyhooligans.blogspot.com/2006/10/another-new-taylor-ad-his-bo-ah-was.html"&gt;an example of &amp;ldquo;do as he says, not as he does&amp;rdquo;&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At the national level, the political example gets worse.  A political operation that trumpeted its particular concept of moral standards recently discovered it doesn't live up to its own example.  Ron takes issue with the search for scapegoats as he examines &lt;a  target="_blank" href="http://ronhudson.blogspot.com/2006/10/foley-fallout.html"&gt;the Foley Fallout&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks, everyone, for sharing your examples.  Thanks for sharing what you care about.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://www.rockridgeinstitute.org/thinkingpoints/"&gt;Share what you care about&lt;/a&gt;.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That was the answer that energy and sustainability &lt;a href="http://www.natcap.org/sitepages/pid5.php" target="_blank" &gt;problem-solver Hunter Lovins&lt;/a&gt; offered when asked the challenging question, "What can I do?"  She didn't hesitate before she replied, "Share what you care about."  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's the value of teaching, the value of parenting, the value of community gardening, and the value of blogging.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for sharing, and thanks for reading.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-116031733380491515?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/116031733380491515/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=116031733380491515' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/116031733380491515'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/116031733380491515'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/10/tarheel-tavern-85-setting-example.html' title='Tarheel Tavern #85, &lt;br /&gt;setting an example'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-115989414365375405</id><published>2006-10-03T12:46:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-09-01T10:36:39.805-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='solving problems'/><title type='text'>Blame the squirrels</title><content type='html'>I know a guy who just bought a new car.  He believes it's powered by squirrels.  Just like in the cartoons.  He believes there are squirrels under the hood that make his car go when they run frantically inside those exercise wheels meant for small pets.  Every morning before he leaves for work he tosses a handful of nuts in the glove box to keep the squirrels running.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That fantasy ran out of gas, of course.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But he still believes.  &amp;ldquo;Damn lazy squirrels!&amp;rdquo; he curses, pounding the hood.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;ldquo;Damn lazy squirrels!&amp;rdquo;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-115989414365375405?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/115989414365375405/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=115989414365375405' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115989414365375405'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115989414365375405'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/10/blame-squirrels.html' title='Blame the squirrels'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-115842185746626825</id><published>2006-09-16T11:49:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-09-16T12:20:12.940-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='math as metaphor'/><title type='text'>Those arithmetic stories are clever and all, but what are they about?</title><content type='html'>I spend some of my time trying to persuade people. I want to persuade effectively, so I spend even more of my time thinking about how persuasion works, and how communication works, and sadly, how they don't work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a  target="_blank" href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/09/arithmetic-metaphor-number-1.html"&gt;Arithmetic metaphor #1&lt;/a&gt; is a warm-up, I suppose.  It expresses my frustration at how much time and energy we can expend arguing about disconnected idealogies.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/09/arithmetic-metaphor-allegorynumber-2.html"&gt;The second is about&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Systems_thinking" target="_blank"&gt;systems thinking&lt;/a&gt; -- understanding parts within the context of the whole.  It's about remembering the bigger picture.  When we understand the system of arithmetic we know it's absurd to reject one little part of it.  Or we ought to know that.  But how often do we reject one truth among many because it's just a little too unpleasant, a little too inconvenient, or little too scary?  Does that make it go away?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think not.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finally, &lt;a  target="_blank" href="http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/09/arithmetic-allegorynumber21.html"&gt;the third allegory is about how we demonstrate understanding&lt;/a&gt;...or not.  During a  conversation via blog comments elsewhere I asked participants how we might demonstrate to each other that we really understand each other's views.  &amp;#8220;Repeat the other person's argument back to him or her&amp;#8221;, was the only reply I received.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That reply left me frustrated and dissatisfied, although it took me a long time to figure out why.  For one thing, I was trying to carry on a conversation, not an argument. And the reply felt like a lecture.  I know the basics of active listening.  Most of us do.  Repeating statements is fine; it's useful; it helps to confirm accuracy.  But that's all it signifies. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's not what I really want. Mere acknowledgement isn't very satisfying. I'd rather see an indication of understanding.  And to me that means &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;demonstrating that we have incorporated new information into our own thinking&lt;/span&gt;.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If I hand someone a message written on a puzzle piece, I hope to see that piece added to the puzzle.  Could we at least try, before declaring it doesn't fit or simply ignoring it? Saying &amp;#8220;thanks for the blue puzzle piece&amp;#8221; while stuffing it into one's pocket, never to be considered again, that's not a demonstration of understanding.  That's not why I deliver messages like puzzle pieces.  Puzzle pieces belong in a puzzle, assembled, not in the linty darkness of a pocket.   &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Parroting words back and forth is a social ritual.  It has value, but it's transient, fleeting. &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Demonstrating&lt;/span&gt; that we really understand the messages we exchange, &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;that we can fit new pieces into our puzzle&lt;/span&gt;, that has lasting value.  That's how we establish shared meaning.  That's how we begin to make progress. That's how we create the world we want.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-115842185746626825?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/115842185746626825/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=115842185746626825' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115842185746626825'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115842185746626825'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/09/those-arithmetic-stories-are-clever.html' title='Those arithmetic stories are clever and all, but what are they about?'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-115738979942431385</id><published>2006-09-09T15:45:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-09-09T15:54:15.876-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='math as metaphor'/><title type='text'>Arithmetic metaphor (number 1)</title><content type='html'>2 + 2 = 3&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And because 2+2=3 blah blah blah...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Are you kidding?! That's stupid!  &lt;em&gt;Everybody knows&lt;/em&gt; 2+2=5!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don't you see? &lt;em&gt;This&lt;/em&gt; untruth is ever so much better than &lt;em&gt;that&lt;/em&gt; untruth.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ha! So there!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-115738979942431385?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/115738979942431385/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=115738979942431385' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115738979942431385'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115738979942431385'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/09/arithmetic-metaphor-number-1.html' title='Arithmetic metaphor &lt;br /&gt;(number 1)'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-115746194177202156</id><published>2006-09-09T15:44:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-09-09T15:53:18.316-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='math as metaphor'/><title type='text'>Arithmetic metaphor allegory(number 2)</title><content type='html'>2&amp;nbsp;+&amp;nbsp;2&amp;nbsp;=&amp;nbsp;4&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Duh.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3&amp;nbsp;+&amp;nbsp;3&amp;nbsp;=&amp;nbsp;6.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Okay, sure.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Also 4&amp;nbsp;+&amp;nbsp;4&amp;nbsp;=&amp;nbsp;8, and...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whoa! Eight! No, see, I've got a problem with 8.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A problem with 8?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yeah, I'm okay with that other stuff, but 8....I just don't think so.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some truths seem inconvenient, indeed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yeah, whatever.  Hey, can we argue some more about 2+2=5 or 2+2=3?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-115746194177202156?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/115746194177202156/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=115746194177202156' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115746194177202156'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115746194177202156'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/09/arithmetic-metaphor-allegorynumber-2.html' title='Arithmetic &lt;strike&gt;metaphor&lt;/strike&gt; allegory&lt;br /&gt;(number 2)'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-115783106358924304</id><published>2006-09-09T15:43:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-09-09T15:54:49.130-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='math as metaphor'/><title type='text'>Arithmetic allegory(number=2+1)</title><content type='html'>... And therefore we can conclude with certainty that 2+2=5, and...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Um, don't you mean four?&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 2+2=4?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yes, yes, of course.  Obviously so.  Now, as I was saying: Because 2+2=5, it must also be the case that...blah blah blah...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;(sigh)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-115783106358924304?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/115783106358924304/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=115783106358924304' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115783106358924304'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115783106358924304'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/09/arithmetic-allegorynumber21.html' title='Arithmetic allegory&lt;br /&gt;(number=2+1)'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-115549404592393019</id><published>2006-08-13T14:24:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-08-13T16:19:55.500-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tar Heel Tavern'/><title type='text'>Tar Heel Tavern #77: the future is now</title><content type='html'>&lt;img src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7401/2454/320/tarheel1.jpg" style="float:right;margin:10px" /&gt; As I mentioned earlier, the theme of this 77th week of the Tar Heel Tavern is "the future". I like to have a theme when I host the Tavern here.  It helps me to frame the pieces that I receive within the context of my blog.  I realized as I looked over this weeks' contributions that the future is really about connections between the past, the present, tomorrow, and generations to come.  It seems to me we construct narratives, stories, to make sense of those connections.   &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here's my constructed narrative, an attempt to connect eleven views of past, present, and future.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Colonel Corn carries a camera, and he knows something about constructing clever narrative. Cuz that's his career. His &lt;strike&gt;day&lt;/strike&gt; night job involves documenting events in the present to show in the near future of nightly news.  Here's his description of a &lt;a href="http://colonelcornscamera.blogspot.com/2006/08/glad-i-could-help-officer.html" title="colonel corn csi" target="_blank"&gt;night's work to construct a narrative&lt;/a&gt; while events unfolded.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Apparently the news narrative in Greensboro is cooked up in &lt;a href="http://blog.news-record.com/staff/melskitchen/" title="le kitchen du mel" target="_blank"&gt;Mel's Kitchen&lt;/a&gt;. One of Mel's colleagues at the &lt;a href="http://www.news-record.com/" title="greensboro news record" target="_blank"&gt;News &amp;amp; Record&lt;/a&gt; attempted to eat his way into a motorcycling future in a contest outside Moe's kitchen.  Consult the menu at Mel's Kitchen for &lt;a href="http://blog.news-record.com/staff/melskitchen/archives/2006/08/eric_townsend_b.html" title="mel and moe" target="_blank"&gt;narrative and contest results&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7401/2454/320/pc2004-small.png" style="float:left;margin:10px" /&gt; Meanwhile Mr. Ogre searched for a view into the future.  He was astonished to discover his own past, especially when  it turned out to be a past view of his future.  Or maybe our popular mechanical future.  Or a future past.  But it's really none of those things.  Confused?  &lt;a href="http://ogresview.mu.nu/archives/190341.php" title="past future ogre" target="_blank"&gt;Mr. Ogre explains&lt;/a&gt;...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Billy, the blogging poet, also has a popular mechanical future in mind.  As if blogging, writing poems, and &lt;a href="http://streetplanes.blogspot.com/2006/07/wackemall-1-hard-at-work.html" target="_blank"&gt;flying the streets of Greensboro&lt;/a&gt; isn't enough to keep him busy in the present, &lt;a  target="_blank" href="http://bloggingpoet.squarespace.com/bloggingpoetcom/2006/8/12/donations-wanted-but-not-money.html"&gt;he announces a new project&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp; With reader assistance yet another unforgettable flying object soon will hover in range of photo opportunities.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Regular readers of another of the Tavern's blogging poets know that Erin's blog has been time-traveling into the future.&amp;nbsp; A post from Sept. 16, 2006 floats at the top of &lt;a href="http://poetic-acceptance.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Poetic-Acceptance&lt;/a&gt;, waiting for the rest of us to arrive.&amp;nbsp; On that day Erin's effort to raise money to support the &lt;a href="http://www.americanheart.org/" title="american heart association" target="_blank"&gt;American Heart Association&lt;/a&gt;'s research into congenital heart defects will culminate with the Charlotte-Metro Heart Walk.  &lt;a href="http://poetic-acceptance.blogspot.com/2006/08/sponsor.html" target="_blank"&gt;She's very excited to announce a sponsor&lt;/a&gt; for her walking team.  &lt;a href="http://poetic-acceptance.blogspot.com/2006/08/sponsor.html" target="_blank"&gt;Click&lt;/a&gt;, and your future could include a portrait by a professional photographer...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Walk?  Coturnix zooms!  The Tavern's long-time science blogger continues to post at a frenetic pace.  This week it seems he's mostly examined history.  Apparently his Blog Around the Clock runs backward sometimes. Fortunately our patented future filter can extract a couple of thematic items anyway.  Here's a brief item about possible beneficial &lt;a href="http://scienceblogs.com/clock/2006/08/the_changes_in_the_business_of.php" title="coturnix on science" target="_blank"&gt;changes in the practice of science research&lt;/a&gt;, and here's one about &lt;a href="http://scienceblogs.com/clock/2006/08/global_warming_disrupts_the_ti.php" title="coturnix on climate disruption" target="_blank"&gt;disruptive changes due to global warming&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From long timer to short timer:  A recent arrival to our blogging future, &lt;a href="http://evoledu.blogspot.com/" title="mr r blog" target="_blank"&gt;Mr. R.&lt;/a&gt; asks some &lt;a href="http://evoledu.blogspot.com/2006/08/big-questions.html"  target="_blank"&gt;big questions&lt;/a&gt; about raising his future children.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The big question I ponder is, "How do we transform our culture into a sustainable one?"  Over at the upper right of this page is a tag line, "sustainability is an attitude".  It's about how we think, what we value as individuals, what we value as communities, and what we value as a culture.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At &lt;a href="http://fixinghealth.blogspot.com/" title="fixin heathcare" target="_blank"&gt;Fixin' Healthcare&lt;/a&gt; Marcus considers health as a matter of attitude.  It's about "change in behavior" and "change in thinking", &lt;a href="http://fixinghealth.blogspot.com/2006/08/lifestyle-chronicles-desperately.html" title="health change in thinking" target="_blank"&gt;he writes&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Laurie, at &lt;a href="http://slowlysheturned.blogspot.com/" title="...slowly she turned" target="_blank"&gt;Slowly She Turned&lt;/a&gt;, is also interested in attitude, values, and changes in behavior. Her &lt;a href="http://slowlysheturned.blogspot.com/2006/08/some-thoughts-on-civility.html" title="thoughts on civility" target="_blank"&gt;thoughts on civility&lt;/a&gt; reflect my experiences and my concerns. And, uncomfortably, I know I haven't always lived up to my own standard.   It seems to me that being mindful of our behavior in the present relies heavily upon our ability to predict the consequences of our behavior in the future. Perhaps we live with one foot in the present and one foot in the future, even if we don't always notice that stance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://tbotalks.blogspot.com/2006/08/ncrc-opportunity-vs-ideology.html" title="justin on ncrc" target="_blank"&gt;Justin's stance&lt;/a&gt; on the &lt;a href="http://www.ncresearchcampus.net/index.html" title="nc research campus" target="_blank"&gt;North Carolina Research Campus&lt;/a&gt; is enthusiastic and unequivocal.  &lt;a href="http://tbotalks.blogspot.com/" target="_blank" title="view from cheap seats"&gt;The View From The Cheap Seats&lt;/a&gt; looks upon his vision of the future of Kannapolis.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Further west at the home of Scrutiny Hooligans, Screwy Hoolie looks ahead to November.  He listened to an Asheville area Congressional candidate speak about the present and the future.  &lt;a href="http://www.scrutinyhooligans.blogspot.com/2006/08/live-from-blue-ridge-motion-picture.html" title="candidate transcript" target="_blank"&gt;His transcript&lt;/a&gt; concludes with this conversation with a wise grandmother:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"When's the best time to plant a tree?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Grandma, I have no idea."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She said, "It was thirty years ago....When's the second best time to plant a tree?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"I don't know, Grandma."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She said, "Today."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I like how Grandma thinks. That's a narrative that links the past and the present to the future.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-115549404592393019?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/115549404592393019/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=115549404592393019' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115549404592393019'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115549404592393019'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/08/tar-heel-tavern-77-future-is-now.html' title='Tar Heel Tavern #77: the future is now'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-115547333509793891</id><published>2006-08-13T08:48:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-08-13T08:48:55.100-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tar Heel Tavern'/><title type='text'>Tar Heel Tavern: coming to a near future near you</title><content type='html'>The theme of the 77th week of the Tar Heel Tavern is "the future".  The theme fits this blog:  thinking about sustainable culture involves thinking about the future.  But it's difficult to think about the future without also thinking about the present, of course.   We try to make sense of the flow of past and present into future by constructing a narrative.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today I'm assembling a narrative from a double handful of contributed pieces.  It's a puzzle, a challenge, a new story to write today because I decided to look for Perseid meteors last night.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First, coffee.  Then, narrative.  Later, the future.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Watch this space!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-115547333509793891?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/115547333509793891/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=115547333509793891' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115547333509793891'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115547333509793891'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/08/tar-heel-tavern-coming-to-near-future.html' title='Tar Heel Tavern: coming to a near future near you'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-115481154433935300</id><published>2006-08-05T16:52:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-08-23T12:17:18.916-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Books'/><title type='text'>A book meme</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://pithingcontest.blogspot.com/2006/08/10-books-of-greensmile.html" target="_blank"&gt;Greensmile&lt;/a&gt; asked whether the word &amp;#8220;meme&amp;#8221; comes from &amp;#8220;Me me!&amp;#8221;  Susan Blackmore, who studies memes and writes extensively about them, might agree that &lt;a href="http://www.susanblackmore.co.uk/Books/Meme%20Machine/Chapter%201.htm" target="_blank"&gt;it does&lt;/a&gt;, in a way.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A meme is an idea that spreads.  That's my working definition, a model I find useful. It's an inexact copy of &lt;a href="http://www.susanblackmore.co.uk/memetics/about%20memes.htm" target="_blank"&gt;Susan Blackmore's definition&lt;/a&gt;.  Meme ideas spread by imitation, by exact copying and inexact copying.  Memes can be melodies, catch-phrases, stories, clothing fashions, and ways of making pots.  Many memes spread unintentionally in the course of casual conversation and story-telling.  Bloggers deliberately spread some memes as ways to inspire new posts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I like this particular blog meme. It offers opportunities to think about books that influence our lives.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. One book that changed your life?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 10px 10px 0;" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7401/2454/320/Ishmael-cover.jpg" alt="" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://ishmael.org/images/contents/bzbackcover.jpg" target="_blank"&gt;The Story of B&lt;/a&gt;, by Daniel Quinn.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/2-0553375407-24" target="_blank"&gt;Ishmael&lt;/a&gt; would have worked, too, but it was not on the library shelf that day.  Both are entry points to a library of astonishing insights into our culture's operation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. One book you have read more than once?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Shockwave_Rider" target="_blank"&gt;The Shockwave Rider&lt;/a&gt;, by John Brunner.  It was also the book that changed my life the first time, and one of many that created a context to understand and to value the ideas of Daniel Quinn, &lt;a href="http://www.infed.org/thinkers/senge.htm" target="_blank"&gt;Peter Senge&lt;/a&gt;, and &lt;a href="http://effectmeasure.blogspot.com/2004/12/lakoff-i-who-is-george-lakoff.html" target="_blank"&gt;George Lakoff&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. One book you would want on a desert island?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some big, thick anthology of relatively recent literature, such as the one I bought for an American Lit class a couple of decades ago.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A number of meme writers already have mentioned practical books about desert island survival.   I'll figure out the edible plants by cautious tasting. I'd rather share an indefinite future with &lt;a href="http://www.poets.org/viewmedia.php/prmMID/15403" target="_blank"&gt;e e cummings&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.theotherpages.org/poems/crane01.html" target="_blank"&gt;Stephen Crane&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.twainquotes.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Mark Twain&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. One book that made you laugh?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/1-1578050847-5" target="_blank"&gt;The River Why&lt;/a&gt;, by &lt;a href="http://weberstudies.weber.edu/archive/archive%20D%20Vol.%2018.2-21.1/Vol.%2019.2/SumnerDuncan.htm" target="_blank"&gt;David James Duncan&lt;/a&gt;. I'd quote some funny bits, but my copy is loaned out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. One book that made you cry?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That I don't remember distinctly.  But this might be a good time to mention &lt;a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/17-0345417941-1" target="_blank"&gt;The Cider House Rules&lt;/a&gt;, by &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Irving" target="_blank"&gt;John Irving&lt;/a&gt;.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. One book you wish had been written?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Initially I misread that as a book I wish I, personally, had written.  And that would be &lt;a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/7-1931520011-2" target="_blank"&gt;Meet Me in the Moon Room&lt;/a&gt;, by Ray Vukcevich.  I can't even describe how wonderfully Vukcevich writes, but &lt;a href="http://www.strangehorizons.com/2003/20030519/vukcevich.shtml" target="_blank"&gt;this guy tries...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As for a book that should have been written by somebody, anybody, how about &lt;a href="http://www.agron.iastate.edu/courses/agron342/diamondmistake.html" target="_blank"&gt;What If This New Way of Life Doesn't Work Out?&lt;/a&gt;, by &lt;a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/18-0143036556-0" target="_blank"&gt;Jared Diamond&lt;/a&gt;'s great great 500-generations-ago grandmother.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. One book you wish had never had been written?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To mention it would be to spread its meme.  Why dignify it?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Other meme writers have mentioned books that seem to inspire legions of readers to behave badly. We all know the adage about judging books by their covers.  I do find some value in judging books by their &lt;em&gt;readers&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8. One book you are currently reading?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I sometimes borrow a backpack full of books at one time from a nearby university library.  The nonfiction ones I graze for good ideas.  The fiction I read to be impressed by writing style, such as &lt;a href="http://fallsapart.com/books.html" target="_blank"&gt;The Toughest Indian in the World&lt;/a&gt;, by Sherman Alexie.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;9. One book you have been meaning to read?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/61-1591393256-0" target="_blank"&gt;Tempered Radicals: How Everyday Leaders Inspire Change at Work&lt;/a&gt;, by &lt;a href="http://www.siconversations.org/shows/detail942.html" target="_blank"&gt;Debra Meyerson&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10. Now tag &lt;span style="text-decoration: line-through"&gt;five&lt;/span&gt; some other people...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.chrishardie.com/weblog/archives/2006/08/infected-with-a-book-meme.html/trackback/" target="_blank"&gt;Chris H.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www4.ncsu.edu/~tenshi/index2.html" target="_blank"&gt;John Kessel&lt;/a&gt;, science fiction author and &lt;a href="http://www4.ncsu.edu/~tenshi/Nonfic.html" target="_blank"&gt;SF critic&lt;/a&gt; and NC State professor.  He's not likely to see this, and his web site isn't really a blog, but memes are often inexact copies...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;11. (&lt;a href="http://imdb.com/title/tt0088258/" target="_blank"&gt;These go to eleven.&lt;/a&gt;)  What about &lt;u&gt;Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance&lt;/u&gt;?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Indeed. Now we are enlightened.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;----------------------------&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Want to check out a book before buying? Please support your local library. (And don't forget about inter-library loans.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-115481154433935300?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/115481154433935300/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=115481154433935300' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115481154433935300'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115481154433935300'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/08/book-meme.html' title='A book meme'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-115412585763085511</id><published>2006-07-28T18:10:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-01-13T14:02:07.769-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Of icebergs, NPR, and language</title><content type='html'>[&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Update Jan. 13, 2008, for NPR puzzle folks:  No, I can't find it either! The funny Scrabble site, that is.  But since that seems a dead end, and you're already here, why not stick around, click around, and read some more?  Cheers&lt;/span&gt;]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For some time I've planned to write an essay framed by the metaphor, "the tip of an iceberg".  I planned to include a photo of an iceberg that's been floating around the Internet for years.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I haven't finished that essay.  I ponder a lot and write slowly.  In the mean time, NPR beat me to it.   &lt;img style="float:left;align:top;margin:5px" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7401/2454/320/iceberg-clevenger-small.jpg" title="iceberg image" /&gt; Well, sort of.  The NPR segment, "Language: What Lies Beneath", does cover a topic that interests me, and &lt;a title="essay about language" href="http://bluepuzzle.org/not" target="_blank"&gt;one I've written about briefly&lt;/a&gt;. But NPR's web graphic is based on exactly the iceberg image I planned to use.    For me this image, created by photographer Ralph Clevenger, expresses the visual metaphor of the tip of an iceberg just as I see it in my mind. How about you?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.npr.org/news/specials/language/interactive/index.html" target="_blank"&gt;Language: What Lies Beneath&lt;/a&gt; at NPR.org&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Update: Eventually I did write another "tip of the iceberg" essay.  It can be found at my other web site, &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/iceberg" title="iceberg essay at BluePuzzle.org"&gt;BluePuzzle.org/iceberg&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-115412585763085511?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/115412585763085511/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=115412585763085511' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115412585763085511'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115412585763085511'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/07/of-icebergs-npr-and-language.html' title='Of icebergs, NPR, and language'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-115403774168065813</id><published>2006-07-27T17:54:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-07-27T18:09:11.013-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Road Closed, Bridge Out</title><content type='html'>Suppose we're driving, and we approach a large barricade with a sign that says,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;ROAD CLOSED&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;BRIDGE OUT&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What is our standard of evidence to make a decision?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What if we've already driven past a ROAD CLOSED AHEAD warning sign every mile for the last 30 miles?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Driving off a cliff, pedal to the metal, just to confirm that the bridge really is gone and that 30 miles of warning signs really were there for a reason, that strikes me as unwise and unimpressive decision-making behavior.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's not wisdom.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-115403774168065813?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/115403774168065813/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=115403774168065813' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115403774168065813'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115403774168065813'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/07/road-closed-bridge-out.html' title='Road Closed, Bridge Out'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-115339950163622952</id><published>2006-07-20T08:35:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-07-20T10:10:50.250-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Information, Knowledge, Wisdom</title><content type='html'>How do these three puzzle pieces fit together?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Information&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;Knowledge&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;Wisdom&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How do we tell them apart? How do we acquire them? How do we apply them?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-115339950163622952?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/115339950163622952/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=115339950163622952' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115339950163622952'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115339950163622952'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/07/information-knowledge-wisdom.html' title='Information, Knowledge, Wisdom'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-115237623606869616</id><published>2006-07-08T12:18:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-09-01T10:36:39.805-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='solving problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Key pieces'/><title type='text'>Escaping the pinch of the finger trap</title><content type='html'>Have you ever felt the pinch of a finger trap puzzle?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A finger trap looks harmless.  It's just a small tube made of paper.  Perhaps a jokester friend handed one to you and said, "Here...stick your fingers in this thing, then pull them out."  How hard can that be?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So you play along, stick your fingers into the tube, pull, and find your fingers stuck. Trapped.  Pinched.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Also puzzled, and probably frustrated, most of us react by pulling harder.  Getting our fingers out must involve pulling, right?  So we pull harder.  And the finger trap pinches tighter.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The secret of the finger trap is our belief that pulling harder ought to work.  But pulling harder doesn't work; that's what makes it a trap.  The solution to escape the finger trap is to push gently first.  Pushing into the tube releases its pinch.  Only then can we carefully remove one finger at a time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Escaping a finger trap isn't just a matter of pushing, though.  It's also a matter of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;understanding first how the trap works&lt;/span&gt;.  First we need insight into its mechanism.  When we discover our initial belief works badly, that pulling harder pinches tighter, then we adjust our belief to accomodate a method that works. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Or...not.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Reading the news, hearing the news, watching the news, how many of those stories are about pulling harder on traps that are pinching tighter?  Why does it seem so difficult to accept that pulling harder pinches tighter?  If it didn't work yesterday, and it's not working today, why believe that pulling harder might suddenly work tomorrow?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A finger trap is just a toy, and its mechanism seems simple. So it's no big deal to adjust our belief about how it works.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If we believe that life is hard, that life is complicated, that there are no easy answers, that a lifetime of effort to pull harder must be rewarded, then a simple solution like, "Push gently," can seem disappointing.  Judging by the news, apparently we believe that difficult problems deserve difficult solutions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are plenty of times when we claim we seek easy answers.  When offered simple solutions, however, how often do we reject them by saying, "Well, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;that&lt;/span&gt; can't be right!" ?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The secret to escape a finger trap is to understand it first.  Insight into the mechanisms that trap us leads to solutions that actually work.  What we believe about the mechanisms of our world make a huge difference in our ability to live freely--or to feel pinched tightly in a giant finger trap.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;---&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Peter Senge's book, &lt;a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/1-0385517254-0" target="_blank"&gt;The Fifth Discipline&lt;/a&gt;, offers a remarkable source of insight into difficult situations and insight into beliefs that can trap us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The &lt;a href="http://sustainabilityinstitute.org/" target="_blank"&gt;Sustainability Institute&lt;/a&gt; is one organization that applies the same thinking to encourage solutions to global challenges.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To see how this piece fits related pieces please visit &lt;a title="My Blue Puzzle Piece" target="_blank" href="http://bluepuzzle.org/finger-trap"&gt;BluePuzzle.org&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-115237623606869616?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/115237623606869616/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=115237623606869616' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115237623606869616'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115237623606869616'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/07/escaping-pinch-of-finger-trap.html' title='Escaping the pinch of the finger trap'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-115219311849769819</id><published>2006-07-06T09:34:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-07-06T09:38:38.516-04:00</updated><title type='text'>And we all begin happily ever after</title><content type='html'>How would we live if the phrase, "And we all live happily ever after," &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;begins a new story?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We're accustomed to seeing a similar sentence at the &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;end&lt;/span&gt; of stories.  It seems to function there as a perfunctory wrap-up, tacked on mostly as a story-telling ritual.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It seems to me there's always another story unfolding, however, or a new one that's about to begin.  Instead of perfunctory endings, what if we focus on setting the precedent for the quality of our lives from the beginning?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How would we live if &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;beginnings&lt;/span&gt; justify means?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-115219311849769819?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/115219311849769819/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=115219311849769819' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115219311849769819'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115219311849769819'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/07/and-we-all-begin-happily-ever-after.html' title='And we all begin happily ever after'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-115169314171546210</id><published>2006-06-30T14:34:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-06-30T14:45:41.733-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Credibility (a small piece, a big loss)</title><content type='html'>Credibility is gained in pennies, but spent in dollars.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In another forum, I spent my credibility recklessly, and I regret it.  Besides credibility, that means a loss of &lt;i&gt;time&lt;/i&gt; to recover.  This is a reminder* to invest wisely.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 70%"&gt;* a reminder to myself, as well as hypothetical readers&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-115169314171546210?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/115169314171546210/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=115169314171546210' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115169314171546210'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115169314171546210'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/06/credibility-small-piece-big-loss.html' title='Credibility&lt;br /&gt; (a small piece, a big loss)'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-115106796929857335</id><published>2006-06-25T02:00:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-06-27T10:55:45.926-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tar Heel Tavern'/><title type='text'>Tar Heel Tavern #70: qualities of life</title><content type='html'>&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7401/2454/320/tarheel1.jpg" border="0" alt="Tar Heel Tavern logo" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Welcome to the 70th weekly Tar Heel Tavern.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Last week's Tavern led me to think about "quality of life" as a theme for this week.  It's something I think about a lot, a fundamental value that guides my life and my blogs.  To keep the mood light for Tavern guests, I suggested a variety of qualities, ranging from bright shiny crunchiness to good food and good photos.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Good food and photos come to us from &lt;a href="http://mlight.typepad.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Moomin Light&lt;/a&gt;.  &lt;a href="http://mlight.typepad.com/moomin_light/2006/05/real_food.html" target="_blank"&gt;Strawberries, blueberries, and apples&lt;/a&gt; picked fresh in the North Carolina mountains--what a wonderful way to appreciate quality.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Taking a rest from walking in those mountains, Waterfall at &lt;a href="http://asortofnotebook.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"&gt;A Sort of Notebook&lt;/a&gt; offers a photo of part-time bobcat, &lt;a href="http://asortofnotebook.blogspot.com/2006/06/makeshift-shade.html" target="_blank"&gt;Beau, demonstrating the art of lounging&lt;/a&gt;.  Dogs and cats really know how to relax completely, don't they?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Over at the coast, however, one dog isn't relaxing, and neither is the crab it found on the beach.  Sometimes one view of quality conflicts with another view, doesn't it? &lt;a href="http://www.captivatedbymandie.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Mandie, at Captivated by...&lt;/a&gt; assures us that &lt;a href="http://www.captivatedbymandie.com/blog/2006/06/dog-vs-crab.html" target="_blank"&gt;no crabs were harmed during the production of this video&lt;/a&gt;. There is, however, no word about what happened at dinner.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You might want to keep that dog and crab relationship in mind as you consider George's comment about &lt;a href="http://www.dirtygreek.org/journal/journalId/1970" target="_blank"&gt;the relationship of elected officials to their constituents&lt;/a&gt;, especially when it comes to email. (Email about quality of life, perhaps?)  There's more quality George at &lt;a href="http://dirtygreek.org" target="_blank"&gt;dirtygreek.org&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dan, from BlueNC, sent a letter to an Asheville editor about an elected official and the quality of health care for veterans.  He thinks his letter may not be published in his local newspaper, but &lt;a href="http://www.bluenc.com/node/2778" title="letter to the editor" target="_blank"&gt;it's online at BlueNC&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Also at BlueNC, Lance &lt;a href="http://www.bluenc.com/node/2744" target="_blank"&gt;unveils&lt;/a&gt; a new &lt;a href="http://www.bluenc.com/ncblogindex" title="bluenc nc blog index" target="_blank"&gt;database of North Carolina blogs&lt;/a&gt;.  It's colorful, taggable, searchable, self-serviceable, and now available.  Lance hopes a "free 'n' easy" blog database will contribute to the quality of blogging life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Alex Wilson, who has a &lt;a href="http://www.alexwilson.com/" title="alex wilson studios" target="_blank"&gt;studio named after him&lt;/a&gt;, also unveils a web project this week. &lt;a href="http://www.alexwilson.com/carrborohill/index.php/Main_Page" target="_blank"&gt;Carrboro Hill&lt;/a&gt; is a "community wiki", a collaborative way to document all the qualities of life in Carrboro and Chapel Hill.  And if you can spare the bandwidth, his song &lt;a href="http://www.alexwilson.com/downloads/audio/alexwilson_untitledpretention.mp3"&gt;Untitled Pretention Pontificated by a Passive Voice&lt;/a&gt; offers sunny advice to us writers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Titled without pretention and announced at a reasonable volume, Tavern newcomer Jerry, at &lt;a href="http://idiomsavant.typepad.com/" target="_blank"&gt;idiom savant&lt;/a&gt;, says he's &lt;a href="http://idiomsavant.typepad.com/blog/2006/06/say_it_at_a_rea.html" target="_blank"&gt;proud to be an introvert&lt;/a&gt; despite living in a world of extroverts.  And he is not bemused...&lt;a href="http://idiomsavant.typepad.com/blog/2006/06/i_am_not_bemuse.html" target="_blank"&gt;or is he&lt;/a&gt;?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Regular readers know what to expect when they open a window into the mind of &lt;a href="http://anonymoses.blogspot.com" title="anonymoses" target="_blank"&gt;Anonymoses&lt;/a&gt;.  Irregular readers are advised to fasten their seatbelts and to keep their hands and feet inside the ride at all times.  &lt;a href="http://anonymoses.blogspot.com/2006/06/life-its-quality-not-quantity.html" title="anonymoses" target="_blank"&gt;It's about quality, not quantity&lt;/a&gt;.  "Love everything that breathes," he advises.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's dusk now as I write.  A barred owl wails, "Who?" outside my window as I quote Anon: "Love everything that breathes."  I go outside to reassure the owl, "You!" but it's gone. It doesn't trust us, I guess.  It may take us a while to undo the sad track record of our own species.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It might help if we have a clearer vision of what we care about most.  &lt;a href="http://bloggingpoet.squarespace.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Billy, the Blogging Poet&lt;/a&gt; writes about someone who lives with a clear guiding vision in &lt;a href="http://bloggingpoet.squarespace.com/bloggingpoetcom/2006/6/20/cornpone.html" target="_blank"&gt;The Ballad of Crunchy Corn&lt;/a&gt;.  The title character (Crunchy, not Billy...or is it? hmmmm....) knows exactly what constitutes a satisfying quality of his life, and he doesn't allow Congresspersons or cornstalks to interfere.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately insomnia can interfere with bloggers' quality of life.  That's been a recurring subtext recently, a not so pleasant quality of our lives.  Coturnix studies the science of sleep, but apparently doesn't sleep himself.  Oh, he &lt;i&gt;claims&lt;/i&gt; to sleep, but I doubt that sleep is compatible with his attempt to set the land speed record of blogging. (Over 100 posts in ten days, and that's just a practice lap.)  One of those umpty-thousand posts recalls his recent visit to New York.  His &lt;a href="http://scienceblogs.com/clock/2006/06/new_york_city_trip_part_vii_sp.php" title="bora goes to nyc" target="_blank"&gt;quality time with his family&lt;/a&gt; included the Broadway show, Spamalot, based on Monty Python comedy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Monty Python reference is important because it sets up this transition joke about...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(wait for it...)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Comfy Chair!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(Well, it's hysterically funny when it plays in my head. For the Python-challenged, there's a brief explanation &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://people.csail.mit.edu/paulfitz/spanish/t13.html"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;, with &lt;a href="http://people.csail.mit.edu/paulfitz/spanish/script.html" target="_blank"&gt;the full Monty here&lt;/a&gt;.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At any rate, Erin's solution for insomnia turned out to be a &lt;a href="http://poetic-acceptance.blogspot.com/2006/06/new-computer-chair-so-i-can-sleep.html" title="healthy back chair" target="_blank"&gt;new office chair. &lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7401/2454/200/backchair.png" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  If you examine the photo you may ask yourself, as other readers asked, "How does one sit on that thing?"  And Erin would explain, "&lt;a href="http://poetic-acceptance.blogspot.com/2006/06/new-chair-and-sleep.html" title="chair posture demonstration" target="_blank"&gt;Like this&lt;/a&gt;."   The key, in her case, is that her funky chair encourages good circulation that prevents nighttime restless leg syndrome. Feel free to visit &lt;a href="http://poetic-acceptance.blogspot.com" target="_blank"&gt;Poetic Acceptance&lt;/a&gt; to admire her comfy chair, but please don't wake her up.  A good night's sleep is improving the quality of her life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When the tense geopolitical situation keeps him up at night, Screwy Hoolie says &lt;a href="http://scrutinyhooligans.blogspot.com/2006/06/drinking-liberally-steady-your-nerves.html" title="drinking liberally in asheville" target="_blank"&gt;Drinking Liberally&lt;/a&gt; works for him.  More at &lt;a href="http://www.scrutinyhooligans.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Scrutiny Hooligans&lt;/a&gt;...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://iddybud.blogspot.com" title="iddybud blog" target="_blank"&gt;Iddybud&lt;/a&gt; recommends simple things.  Grape Crush.  A creamsicle.  Oh, and a musician named Alexi Murdoch.  Also Bruce Springsteen.  &lt;a href="http://iddybud.blogspot.com/2006_06_24_iddybud_archive.html" title="iddybud recommends" target="_blank"&gt;And....a few other things, too&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A few other things happened in the world this week, of course, including at  least three Sporting Events with Capitalized Titles. One of them culminated in a bright, shiny cup and considerable attention for lil ol' Raleigh.  At &lt;a href="http://ronhudson.blogspot.com" target="_blank"&gt;2sides2ron&lt;/a&gt;, that's just the beginning of a &lt;a href="http://ronhudson.blogspot.com/2006/06/mindfulness-and-hockey.html" target="_blank"&gt;journey that explores qualities of life&lt;/a&gt;. From Raleigh, Ron jumps in time and space to a French ice rink, then to a Caribbean cruise ship, with stops for chicken livers, Portugese vocabulary, and the wonder of friendship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's a lot to follow.  So I'll just close by sharing a question that I've been thinking about this week:  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How would we live if the phrase, "And we all lived happily ever after..." &lt;i&gt;began a new story&lt;/i&gt;?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-115106796929857335?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/115106796929857335/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=115106796929857335' title='9 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115106796929857335'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115106796929857335'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/06/tar-heel-tavern-70-qualities-of-life.html' title='Tar Heel Tavern #70: &lt;br /&gt;qualities of life'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>9</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-115094500321399949</id><published>2006-06-21T22:48:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-05-22T13:54:29.185-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Tar Heel Tavern #70, here, this weekend</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7401/2454/1600/tarheel1.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7401/2454/320/tarheel1.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;The 70th weekly Tar Heel Tavern will arrive here Sunday.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For folks who are inspired by a theme, I suggest "quality of life". I hope this can encompass lots of possibilities: light-hearted or serious, musings about family and friends, vacations (both going and returning), good food, good music, good photos, and whatever else contributes to the quality of our lives.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Contributions may be sent to (&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;obsolete address deleted&lt;/span&gt;) by Saturday evening. The sooner the links arrive, the better the quality of the host's life, and (probably) the better the quality of the Tavern. It's kind of a reciprocation thing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm looking forward to the experience of hosting the THT. I'll do my best to make it fun, tasty, crunchy, chewy, bright, shiny, and generally a quality life experience.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-115094500321399949?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/115094500321399949/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=115094500321399949' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115094500321399949'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115094500321399949'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/06/tar-heel-tavern-70-here-this-weekend.html' title='Tar Heel Tavern #70, &lt;br /&gt;here, this weekend'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-115049299174992436</id><published>2006-06-16T17:21:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-06-18T13:57:51.856-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Finding value in giving;an economy that values people</title><content type='html'>Both of my hypothetical readers noticed that I haven't told any personal anecdotes here. I prefer to direct our attention toward culture and communication rather than autobiography.  But community is part of culture and communication, too, and I like to encourage a sense of community online and off.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Since I do have this blog, and I do live in North Carolina, I thought I would join the community of NC bloggers who participate in the Tar Heel Tavern.  The theme of this week's 69th edition of the THT is "reciprocation."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It reminded me of the complicated game that dominates much of our lives, the economy*. An author with remarkable insight, Daniel Quinn, has characterized the economy as a reciprocation of products: "Make products, buy products."  Production and consumption:  It's all about the products.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I hear or read economic news and commentary, it often seems that people are entirely incidental to the reciprocation of products and money.  If the produce-and-consume cycle chews up and spits out some people, well, I guess that's just the price we gotta pay.  Wait, did I say "people"?  Oops.  I meant: Human Resources.  They're raw material; &lt;i&gt;of course&lt;/i&gt; they get chewed up and spat out.  That's what resources are for. Apparently that's how the economy game is meant to be played.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Quinn and others have suggested a different reciprocation, one that emphasizes the value of people over products:  "Give support, get support."  A support economy, some call it, a reciprocation of cooperation rather than products.  Some Human Resources, er, some people also call this form of reciprocation a gift economy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hardcore mainstream economists, the professional league players of the economy game, might say that the exchange of money is a kind of support.  You pay me for a product; I pay him for a product; he pays you (for a product, of course!).  Money changes hands, so that's reciprocation, right?  What's the difference?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The difference is attitude.  Attitude makes a difference in how we live and how we value our lives. What attitudes underlie the economy game, the way we play it now?  When people become mere resources, chewed up and spat out as incidental by-products, what are we really saying about our values? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Tar Heel Tavern call for participation noted that "being able to do something for someone else is a very satisfying experience, and that when giving, it comes back in some way."  When I think about that statement, I think about people.  I think about relationships that maintain communities.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Giving--a gift economy. During the 95% of human history that we ignore, and within the human cultures we try to ignore, the gift economy was routine. Give support, get support; that was just expected.  Saying that being able to do something for someone else is a satisfying experience, and that it comes back in some way, people from other times and other cultures might look at us funny and reply, "Well...duuuuuh."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And we might say that now in regard to our immediate families. But how would we live if the satisfaction of doing something for others was a more fundamental part of our lives?  How would we live in a support economy?  Would we argue furiously to deny people a minimum supporting wage?  Would social security be just another "well...duuuuh" expectation?  Would we debate for decades about who deserves basic medical care?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm pleased that the Tar Heel Tavern reminds us to think about reciprocation.  I'm pleased that we have an opportunity to remember how satisfying it is to participate in a support economy.  I'll be even more pleased when we create--actually, recreate--a support economy.  It really isn't far removed, even now.  My grandparents fondly remember when the cheerful (and reciprocated) support of neighbors was a routine part of their lives.  And this Tavern theme reminds us that the satisfaction of giving lingers in our lives now.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;--&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 80%"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* "the economy" or The Economy?  Or even, THE ECONOMY!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I hear it spoken on the news and even in conversation, the words sound capitalized.  Have you noticed that, too?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-115049299174992436?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/115049299174992436/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=115049299174992436' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115049299174992436'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115049299174992436'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/06/finding-value-in-givingan-economy-that.html' title='Finding value in giving;&lt;br /&gt;an economy that values people'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-115039375163414816</id><published>2006-06-15T13:19:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-06-15T13:49:11.676-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Pavement or Paradise?</title><content type='html'>If we pave Paradise to put up a parking lot, doesn't that suggest someone prefers pavement to Paradise?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How sad.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh, but it's just one small corner of Paradise, and we &lt;span style="text-decoration: line-through"&gt;need&lt;/span&gt; want paved parking.  It's a small parking lot, and Paradise is big.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Tomorrow our growing population &lt;span style="text-decoration: line-through"&gt;needs&lt;/span&gt; wants more parking.  So we'll pave over a little more of Paradise.  And the day after that, and...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And one day we notice that Paradise seems very small.  Hey, where did Paradise go?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Was the parking lot really worth the trouble?  A simple shift in our values makes a huge difference. A simple decision. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yesterday, we wanted parking lots.  Today we decide we like Paradise better after all.  So we choose to save Paradise and pull up the parking lots.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-115039375163414816?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/115039375163414816/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=115039375163414816' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115039375163414816'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/115039375163414816'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/06/pavement-or-paradise.html' title='Pavement or Paradise?'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-114963629312670931</id><published>2006-06-06T19:13:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-09-01T10:36:39.805-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='solving problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Key pieces'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='George Box'/><title type='text'>Finding value, not just flaws</title><content type='html'>I'm pleasantly surprised by the number of readers who find their way here because they seek information about George Box and his comments about conceptual models.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In other words: There are some! I hope those seekers find wisdom and applicability in his comment, as I have.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most models are wrong, but some are useful. The realization that most mental models, along with policies, plans, propositions, crazy ideas, brilliant ideas, and just plain ideas, the realization that most of them have flaws makes finding their flaws seem pointless. Yeah, they're flawed, but so what? Some are useful. I like the way this insight redirects our attention toward usefulness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I like that attitude a lot.  In my experience that attitude brings knowledge and understanding with minimal hassle and conflict.  It contrasts with an attitude that I find disturbingly common. I spend considerable time in the presence of people who delight in finding flaws, but who express no interest in finding utility.  Their trademark characteristic, their default attitude, and their habitual behavior is rejection.  And way too often, it's vehement, vociferous, angry rejection. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What's up with that?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I feel like I've inadvertantly stumbled into a shooting gallery. So many of these self-proclaimed skeptics seem to do nothing but wait for ideas to be tossed in front of them like clay targets. Bang! Another idea shot down. Did that idea have merit? Who cares! I shot it! I found a flaw! Woohoo!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I used to be a pretty good shot myself, in that way. I practiced daily, just like the idea shooters blasting away now on the web, on TV, on radio. But if most models are wrong, if most ideas are flawed, then we're surrounded by pathetically easy targets. Found a flaw? So what. An attitude and worldview in which most models are wrong, but some are useful, puts shotgun skepticism in a less flattering perspective.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whether we call it skepticism, cynicism, or critical thinking run amok, by itself it's not helpful. Such behavior is not useful.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Can we find value? Can we find utility? Is this model, this idea, this proposition, is it useful? Surrounded by trigger-happy shooters trying to impress their friends (it's no fun without an audience, is it?) finding value amid the noise and the debris, that's a talent I admire.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Does this beg the question whether I'm finding flaws in finding flaws, whether I'm skeptical of skepticism? Of course it does. Bang. We shot that one, too. And gained nothing of value.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Instead, what if...?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What if we think of finding flaws as just one component of careful, clear thinking? It seems to me that seeking value, seeking merit, seeking usefulness, that attitude of inquiry is another component of careful, clear thinking.   To me that's a critical component of critical thinking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Compare:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Shooting down ideas for the sake of making a big noise and impressing a crowd;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;to&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Seeking usefulness while acknowledging limitation...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What attitude do we display in each case?  What's the most likely outcome in each case?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Which attitude creates the world we want?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-114963629312670931?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/114963629312670931/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=114963629312670931' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114963629312670931'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114963629312670931'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/06/finding-value-not-just-flaws.html' title='Finding value, not just flaws'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-114963368705442902</id><published>2006-06-06T18:37:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-06-06T19:33:01.246-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='George Box'/><title type='text'>"cynicism is a self-imposed blindness"</title><content type='html'>Court jester Stephen Colbert spoke at Knox College this past weekend. Amid his usual humor he offered bits of useful insight and wisdom.  He closed by advising graduates to say "yes" often, and to just say no to cynicism:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Cynicism masquerades as wisdom, but it is the farthest thing from it. Because cynics don’t learn anything. Because cynicism is a self-imposed blindness, a rejection of the world because we are afraid it will hurt us or disappoint us. Cynics always say no. But saying “yes” begins things. Saying “yes” is how things grow. Saying “yes” leads to knowledge.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yes.  I find value, insight, and wisdom in that comment. Yes, indeed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(Full transcript of Colbert's speech at Knox.edu, &lt;a href="http://www.knox.edu/x12547.xml"&gt;http://www.knox.edu/x12547.xml&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(Thanks to Leathej1 at &lt;a href="http://scaffadaffa.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Scaffadaffa&lt;/a&gt; for bringing this to my attention, and now to yours.  I'm sure it's widely cited and linked, but I saw it there first.)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-114963368705442902?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/114963368705442902/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=114963368705442902' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114963368705442902'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114963368705442902'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/06/cynicism-is-self-imposed-blindness.html' title='&quot;cynicism is a self-imposed blindness&quot;'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-114891948322271553</id><published>2006-05-29T12:15:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-05-29T12:18:12.233-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Imagine</title><content type='html'>The only shortage that really worries me is lack of imagination.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-114891948322271553?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/114891948322271553/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=114891948322271553' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114891948322271553'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114891948322271553'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/05/imagine.html' title='Imagine'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-114710379906510964</id><published>2006-05-08T11:56:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-09-01T10:36:39.806-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='solving problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Key pieces'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='George Box'/><title type='text'>Most models are wrong, but some are useful</title><content type='html'>That's a paraphrase of an observation by &lt;a target="_blank" title="more about George Box" href="http://bluepuzzle.org/george-box"&gt;George Box&lt;/a&gt;.  The actual statement by Professor Box is longer and rather convoluted.  Its common misquotations are actually more eloquent and rather profound.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have used the most common phrasing, "All models are wrong, but some are useful", as a signature in my online conversations during the past couple of years.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It occurred to me that the statement itself is a sort of model, and that it should be subject to its own wisdom.  An absolute assertion such as "&lt;b&gt;All&lt;/b&gt; models" begs for a counterexample, which is exactly the sort of nitpicking that Box tried to discredit.   And since it's already a misquote, I think it's within the spirit of the statement to phrase it as:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most models are wrong, but some are useful.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've found that statement describes a very, very useful way to think about our world.  I use it daily to figure out how to fit together disparate puzzle piece ideas.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks, Professor Box, for contributing such a useful model to our often puzzling world.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-114710379906510964?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/114710379906510964/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=114710379906510964' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114710379906510964'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114710379906510964'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/05/most-models-are-wrong-but-some-are.html' title='Most models are wrong, but some are useful'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-114505299228131169</id><published>2006-04-16T12:18:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-04-16T12:32:12.710-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Where are the green buzzwords?</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size: 150%"&gt;Q&lt;/span&gt;: Your blog claims to be about "sustainability," but you have no mention of recycling, freecycling, peak oil, vegan soy milk, global warming, global cooling, or endangered species. What's up with that?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 150%"&gt;A&lt;/span&gt;: Thank you for asking!  You are one of the &lt;span style="text-decoration: line-through"&gt;many&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="text-decoration: line-through"&gt;two&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="text-decoration: line-through"&gt;hypothetical&lt;/span&gt; astute readers to inquire about the lack of green buzzwords here.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First, let me assure both of you astute hypothetical readers that all those concepts lurk in my mind somewhere.  I suspect they'll find their way into my writing.  The things that I value should be apparent in everything I say, if I'm doing it right.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Second, assembling a large puzzle can take some time.  There are a lot of pieces to fit together.  We'll get there.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Third, do you really need me to tell you about those buzzwords?   Odds are you're here because:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;your favorite search engine listed this site when you looked for &lt;span style="text-decoration: line-through"&gt;aardvarks&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="text-decoration: line-through"&gt;blue dust mites&lt;/span&gt; something totally unrelated, or...&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;you're already interested in sustainability and so you already know as much about those topics as I do, or...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;you're not really interested in sustainability (yet), and so yet another web site that repeats those terms and lists 500 links to other green web sites...well, that just doesn't hold your attention.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I understand.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My purpose here is to bolster the smaller and less-noticed community of folks who emphasize cultural effects and values.  Remarkable changes in behavior, attitude, and effectiveness can result from small changes in personal values.  &lt;strong&gt;Effectively&lt;/strong&gt; influencing each others' values benefits from credibility, time, and a little investment in persuasive technique.  Without some common language about shared values, without some frame of reference, more blogs about recycling probably won't make much difference.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So this talk of puzzles, frames of reference, and metaphors is a way to build a shared context.  It's a way to create a shared language, some sort of credibility, and a foundation for future ideas.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for your time and attention.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;etbnc&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;------------&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you really do need a hint to find a green buying guide or a nearby organic grocery, please let me know.  Just leave a comment; I'll try to help.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Use of strike-through font for humorous effect cheerfully &lt;span style="text-decoration: line-through"&gt;plagiarized from&lt;/span&gt; inspired by the authors at &lt;a href="http://blog.bioethics.net"&gt;blog.bioethics.net&lt;/a&gt;.  It's probably used elsewhere, but those folks get &lt;span style="text-decoration: line-through"&gt;blame&lt;/span&gt; credit for inspiring me.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-114505299228131169?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/114505299228131169/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=114505299228131169' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114505299228131169'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114505299228131169'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/04/where-are-green-buzzwords.html' title='Where are the green buzzwords?'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-114511708464564700</id><published>2006-04-15T12:01:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-04-15T12:06:12.546-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Books'/><title type='text'>Another useful book</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.powells.com/cgi-bin/biblio?inkey=65-0520225147-0" target="_new"&gt;Shoveling Fuel for a Runaway Train&lt;/a&gt;, by Brian Czech; a quick and easily readable exploration of the assumptions underlying our nearly universal belief in "economic growth"&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-114511708464564700?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/114511708464564700/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=114511708464564700' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114511708464564700'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114511708464564700'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/04/another-useful-book.html' title='Another useful book'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-114383474984689586</id><published>2006-03-31T15:49:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-05-21T09:04:52.137-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Previews of coming attractions</title><content type='html'>To some extent I use this blog as a scratch pad.  It's where I compose rough drafts of material destined for &lt;a href="http://bluepuzzle.org/" target="_blank"&gt;My blue puzzle piece&lt;/a&gt;. It's also handy for its comment feature.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here are some ideas I might develop and explore...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Vision,&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;strategy,&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;  tactical decisions&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Credibility, influence, and persuasion&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Decoupling possibility from probability&lt;br /&gt;(&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Possibility exists&lt;/span&gt; regardless what we perceive to be probable.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Spreading butter with a chainsaw&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Every decision reflects values&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The danger of ends justifying means&lt;br /&gt;(We're gonna do this!  Even if it means we have to give everyone a chocolate ice cream cone!)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The difference between control and influence&lt;br /&gt;(and the joy of sledding)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wishful thinking,&lt;br /&gt;a conversation from a cocktail party&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What's in a game?&lt;br /&gt;(frames around the word "game")&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's THE economy!&lt;br /&gt;(a game of belief and magic)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Measuring commitment in decibels&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Walking away from the cliff&lt;br /&gt;(Is it still a cliff yet?  &lt;br /&gt;Yup.  &lt;br /&gt;Oh. How about now?)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, there it is:  a table of contents, of sorts, or perhaps an outline of a puzzle.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Comments welcome...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-114383474984689586?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/114383474984689586/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=114383474984689586' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114383474984689586'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114383474984689586'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/03/previews-of-coming-attractions.html' title='Previews of coming attractions'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-114383183230608249</id><published>2006-03-31T14:55:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-03-31T15:05:12.816-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Books'/><title type='text'>Books I've found helpful...</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Fifth Discipline&lt;/span&gt;, and&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Presence&lt;/span&gt;,&lt;br /&gt;both by Peter Senge (et al)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Metaphors We Live By&lt;/span&gt;, and&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Moral Politics&lt;/span&gt;,&lt;br /&gt;both by George Lakoff&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Ishmael&lt;/span&gt;,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Story of B&lt;/span&gt;,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Beyond Civilization&lt;/span&gt;,&lt;br /&gt;by Daniel Quinn&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Leadership Without Easy Answers&lt;/span&gt;,&lt;br /&gt;Ronald Heifetz&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-114383183230608249?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/114383183230608249/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=114383183230608249' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114383183230608249'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114383183230608249'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/03/books-ive-found-helpful.html' title='Books I&apos;ve found helpful...'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-114383133912939131</id><published>2006-03-31T14:49:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-03-31T15:26:11.826-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Books'/><title type='text'>Memorable fiction I've enjoyed</title><content type='html'>and listed in no meaningful order...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;253 (the print remix)&lt;/span&gt;, Geoff Ryman; 253 characters on a brief, memorable journey; a fascinating, innovatively structured anti-novel, orginally composed online at &lt;a href="http://www.ryman-novel.com/"&gt;ryman-novel.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;Catch 22&lt;/span&gt;, Joseph Heller; hilariously tragic cultural criticism&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy&lt;/span&gt;, Douglas Adams, as well as the other four books of the increasingly misnamed trilogy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;Stand on Zanzibar&lt;/span&gt;, John Brunner;  also &lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;The Shockwave Rider&lt;/span&gt;, and &lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;The Sheep Look Up&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;Breakfast of Champions&lt;/span&gt;, Kurt Vonnegut; also &lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;Slaughterhouse Five&lt;/span&gt; and, well, everything else by Vonnegut&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;The Cider House Rules&lt;/span&gt;, John Irving; also &lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;A Prayer for Owen Meany&lt;/span&gt;, and &lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;Setting Free the Bears&lt;/span&gt;, and ....&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;The Sound and the Fury&lt;/span&gt;, William Faulkner&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;Still Life with Woodpecker&lt;/span&gt;, Tom Robbins&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;Ubik&lt;/span&gt;, Philip K. Dick; Reality is now available in a convenient aerosol spray!  Safe when used as directed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;The Year's Best Science Fiction&lt;/span&gt;, Gardner Dozois, ed.;  This annual collection of speculative fiction often turns up writers who think differently.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;Meet Me in the Moon Room&lt;/span&gt;, Ray Vukcevich;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-114383133912939131?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/114383133912939131/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=114383133912939131' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114383133912939131'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114383133912939131'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/03/memorable-fiction-ive-enjoyed.html' title='Memorable fiction I&apos;ve enjoyed'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-114202503485378751</id><published>2006-03-10T17:03:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-03-10T19:01:18.696-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Key pieces'/><title type='text'>This is not about not</title><content type='html'>Think about the word 'not'.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's compact and concise. Just three letters, one syllable. It certainly seems simple enough. It negates, it inverts, it turns an idea upside down, or....not?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The word 'not' is another piece that fits very different puzzles. In the realm of formal logic, computer science, rhetoric, and debate, for example, there the word 'not' is a strong, powerful tool. It transforms the meaning of anything and everything in its path. We learn to think--and to speak and to write--in terms such as, "This thing is true. That other thing is not true."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For people who think and speak and write in terms of formal logic, for people who keep a formal logic puzzle in their minds, the word 'not' is a puzzle piece that transforms every piece attached to it. It transforms the puzzle itself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But for other readers and listeners who may have other picture puzzles in mind, the word 'not' can be surprisingly weak and unhelpful at times. Like a hamster harnessed to a boxcar, the hamster may be too weak to pull the boxcar and too small even to be noticed standing next to it. Those pieces may be assembled as a picture puzzle labeled "hamster pulling boxcar", but many folks will see only the boxcar.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Consider this:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This sentence is not about a boxcar. It is not related to boxcars in any way. Believe me when I tell you, "This paragraph is not about boxcars." Really! I insist! Boxcars are not relevant here! What in the world would make you think any of this could possibly involve boxcars?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So....what is that paragraph about? Formal logic requires that we look for an invisible hamster. An ardent mathemetician who practices formal logic could say that paragraph is about everything in the universe except boxcars, including hamsters (both visible and invisible), as well as aardvarks, baseball, cream cheese, dust mites, and every alphabetized noun through Zen monk. Just remember, no boxcars allowed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How often does that method actually work? Two mathematicians who share a frame of reference involving formal logic might communicate that way. Computer scientists might communicate that way, and even understand each other. Debate teams could launch any argument from that "not boxcar" frame. But most of the time, with an anonymous audience of unknown background, does that paragraph depict a picture of anything other than a boxcar?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not likely. Try it sometime. Actually, if we think about it, many of us have tried it already, and many of us have been puzzled by our difficulty conveying our meaning that way. Neither emaphasis nor insistence add clarity. Repetition makes the situation worse. The darn boxcars just get BIGGER in the reader or listener's mind.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With any frame of mind other than formal logic, that paragraph was about boxcars. Sprinkling the tiny one-syllable 'not' throughout has little effect. If that paragraph was not about boxcars, then it was about nothing at all.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How many times have you heard or read comments like these: "Please don't take this personally, but..." or "I'm not here to shoot down your idea, but..."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ouch! If someone shoots down my idea that way, I suspect I will take it personally. After all, I was practically commanded to do so. Those supposedly soothing prefaces actually put me on edge, on guard, expecting the worst. Rather than ease my likely reaction, they set me up to react with extra vehemence. My mind doesn't react to the little hamster words, it reacts to the big boxcar concepts. How about you?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the future, let's not rely on the word 'not'.  Oops!  ummmmm.....&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the future, let's just focus on the boxcar.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Cheers&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;p.s. I am not a blogger.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-114202503485378751?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/114202503485378751/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=114202503485378751' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114202503485378751'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114202503485378751'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/03/this-is-not-about-not.html' title='This is not about not'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-114193443172427044</id><published>2006-03-09T15:38:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-03-09T19:49:33.233-04:00</updated><title type='text'>...a second piece</title><content type='html'>Why blog now?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Because I want to hear calmer voices in our public conversations.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Because I want to see more demonstrations of insight and understanding.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Because beneficial change is possible.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Because a sustainable culture is possible.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Because what we perceive to be probable is not the same as what is &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;possible&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Because attitude, outlook, and worldview make a difference.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is my contribution to our ongoing dialog.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-114193443172427044?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/114193443172427044/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=114193443172427044' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114193443172427044'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114193443172427044'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/03/second-piece.html' title='...a second piece'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23748928.post-114192702813158014</id><published>2006-03-09T13:52:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2006-06-23T15:35:56.826-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Key pieces'/><title type='text'>Imagine a picture puzzle</title><content type='html'>It comes in a medium-sized box full of hundreds of      intricate little pieces. When assembled it will depict a      landscape, perhaps, with large swatches of blue sea and      blue sky.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Imagine my mind is like one of those picture puzzles, and      so is yours. I take one of those blue puzzle pieces, give      it to you, and declare, "Here's a bit of the picture in      my mind. I give it to you so you can see the picture I      see." I take that piece from the sky portion of my mind's      picture puzzle, but you find it fits best in the sea      portion of yours. "Thanks!" you say, as you join my sky      piece to your sea puzzle. And off we go, cheerfully      believing we have accomplished something, that we have      communicated.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;      George Bernard Shaw wrote, "The single biggest problem in      communication is the illusion that it has taken place."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;      Sometimes I think of it as the illusion of information.      If I hand you a blue puzzle piece from the picture in my      mind, but I don't describe the surrounding picture from      which it came, I set up both of us to misunderstand each      other, to miscommunicate, to see only an illusion of      information.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This blog offers a collection of puzzle pieces. These are      the pieces I find most helpful to create a coherent      picture of the world around us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;      Of course, if I really want to communicate effectively, I      need to describe the whole puzzle, don't I?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;      More pieces to follow...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/23748928-114192702813158014?l=mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/feeds/114192702813158014/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=23748928&amp;postID=114192702813158014' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114192702813158014'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23748928/posts/default/114192702813158014'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mybluepuzzlepiece.blogspot.com/2006/03/imagine-picture-puzzle.html' title='Imagine a picture puzzle'/><author><name>etbnc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03705201307328226917</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
